What Women Want

The research the East West Institute has done over what women want is rather interesting since they delve into this aspect.

What women want in any relationship, including both female and male, is acceptance and being able to maintain a good relationship with their counterpart. Personally, as a women I find this to be true. I do want to be accepted by my female and male friends. Also, keeping the relationship going is another thing I like to have. Being accepted and having a great relationship with people is what makes women both vulnerable on one hand and able to grow, mature, and being the caring people we are is the upside.

Not being accepted people makes women vulnerable when it comes to forming relationships. Although not being accepted, can be an upside too. Not being accepted can help women find people who are more congenial with their personalities. Some may argue with this thought process, but if you can’t take the time to find out why you couldn’t maintain that relationship, you will never be able to maintain a relationship whether it is friendship or a relationship in love.

What Women Want in a Relationship of Love With a Man

Women want to have a close relationship with men before they start having sex. A close relationship to a woman is getting to know each other very well, learning about each others likes and dislikes, getting emotionally and orally (talking about everything from a to z) before moving onto the physical part of the relationship; sex.

Women want to be heard. Meaning, they want the guy to listen to what she’s saying about her feelings, and thoughts on subjects. She doesn’t want to be blown off because the male thinks what she is saying is trivial, unimportant, and just not worth listening too. By listening to what a woman has to say and responding accordingly with what she has to say is a great way with the guy to help build and maintain the relationship.

Women want to feel secure. Security in a relationship with their mate means they want to feel safe both physically and emotionally. This way she will have the feel the has a better chance to survive in the relationship and the world.

The Facts of What Women Want

To feel important 

To be heard

Build the relationship before having a physical relationship

A man who will be around to help raise the kids

A man who is healthy and strong both physically and emotionally

Not to be changed or feel that she needs to be fixed because everything is her fault or because she has a problem

A caring and honest man

To be pleased when having sex; asking her what pleases her will build the sexual relationship along with the emotional relationship

Use the basics for what women want men, you will find that you can figure out even more of what they want. These are the basic things that will make women happy and a happy woman means a happy life.