Things You Should Not Say About Your Ex
Like it or not but the talks about the EX sometimes may comes up, whether it is because of your date is asking you about it, or there is something he/she does which reminds you of your ex.
Some people thought that we’re not supposed to talk about our ex to the person that we’re dating now, but your date may be want to know a little bit of your past, so that he/she asks so many questions about your ex. Actually, it is okay if you want to talk about your ex, but NEVER talk about these matters:
He/she broke my heart. In fact your ex might break your heart, but keep it to yourself. It was in the past. If you tell your date about your ex, and worse, in a very sad way, your date may think that you still love your ex more than him/her.
He/she also took me here when we were dating. When your date takes you to a certain place, big chance that he/she want to consider that place as a special place for the two of you. So, do not ruin his/her wishes by teling him/her that your ex also took you to the same place.
We used to plan to do it too. Depend on how close your relationship with your ex, the two of you migh have a lot or plans to do something together in the past. You don’t need to tell your date if the things that your date is planning with you used to be the thing you used to plan with your ex.
My parents like him/her. Your date want to feel that he/she’s the best person for you. Knowing that there were another person you love might already make him/her very upset, so don’t make it worse by making him/her think that your parents love your ex more.
You still contact him, sometimes. Your relationship with your ex may be ended so smooth that the two of you decided to stay in touch. Would you like it if your date is somehow still related to his/her ex? Why? If you don’t like it, then so does the person that you’re dating with, and for the same reason.
All the good thing about your ex. Again, keep it to yourself. Do you really need to risk your current relationship by saying that your ex is better than your date?
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February 9th, 2012 at 6:36 pm
These are good good tips, thank you
February 9th, 2012 at 7:14 pm
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February 9th, 2012 at 7:25 pm
Have you this experience ??
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February 10th, 2012 at 10:50 am
@ Dragoonk: Hope it’s useful Dragoonk ^_^
@ Dora77: Thank you very much for the support Dora ^_^
@ Ryanxxx: Kind of LOL ^,^
February 10th, 2012 at 1:03 pm
I agree with your advise. Some things are better left alone.
February 10th, 2012 at 1:27 pm
Indeed, for a brighter future ^_^
February 10th, 2012 at 2:20 pm
Useful tips
February 10th, 2012 at 2:36 pm
Hope so. Thank you ^_^
February 10th, 2012 at 6:21 pm
good to know
February 10th, 2012 at 10:53 pm
I agree with some of your points.
February 11th, 2012 at 8:36 am
Thank you ^_^
February 11th, 2012 at 12:50 pm
nice articles
February 12th, 2012 at 11:35 am
yours too. thank you ^_^
February 17th, 2012 at 2:50 am
Good advice! We should use common sense and tact when dealing with new relationships.
February 17th, 2012 at 7:04 pm
yup…better be prepared rather than regret it latter ^_^
February 18th, 2012 at 4:59 pm
great article
February 19th, 2012 at 12:14 am
Great tips. It’s better not to mention ex whenever possible. Say appropriate thing is important to maintain a love relationship.
February 20th, 2012 at 1:03 am
@ nita kusuma dewi: thank you ^_^
@ LCM Linda: Indeed I agree ^_^
February 21st, 2012 at 10:49 pm
Wonderful
February 26th, 2012 at 3:30 pm
Thank you ittech ^_^
March 4th, 2012 at 11:03 pm
This article reminds me a common Chinese saying “Troubles come out from the mouth.” Everyone has to be careful in talking.
March 5th, 2012 at 3:05 pm
Yup. I think I need to put on a brake on my mouth too LOL ^,^
March 14th, 2012 at 9:15 am
Common sense advice that needs to be heeded.
March 16th, 2012 at 3:02 pm
@ Lady Sunshine: Thank you very much ^_^