The Perfect Ideal Man

   Women always look for that Perfect, Ideal Man, but do they really exist? I don’t think so. Men are like women that comes in one package. They have the good side and they have the bad side. The key to this soul searching agony is to actually look for a “probable guy” and not a “perfect guy.”

   The term probable means someone who has a good side and a bad side that you can perfectly take, handle and accept. A perfect example to this statement would be a guy who smokes. Some women hates men who smokes but for some, its not much of a deal. That means the girl who doesn’t mind a guy who smokes thinks that smoking is not an issue then therefore if they began dating smoking will never be an issue.

   If you see something that you don’t like at the very first date and you think you can’t tolerate that, then put your feet down and add him to the “date list only.” Don’t pursue a second date because you will only get disappointed by trying to adjust yourself for him or by trying to convince him to change.

   Remeber there are so many men out there and your definitely going to find that probable one. Relationship should be made out of emotion and  not out of desperation.