The Narcissist is Back, Dont be Happy
He misses you. Dont feel happy about this because, he may just miss you for the wrong reasons. He misses how you pandered to his every wish and hang on to his every word. He does not miss you as a person. He misses the attention and the adulation that you gave him that he is probably unable to get any where else.
You may be feeling es tactic because your lovelorn narcissistic partner has resurfaced after subjecting you to days, months and for others years of emotional torment. The man who had dropped off the face of the earth is suddenly back into your life as if nothing had happened before. He does not apologise for the misdemeanour that he had done or asks forgiveness for the transgression he committed against you. You are euphoric yet trepidated by his return because you understand deep down inside that this man could not possible have feelings for you. If a man truly loves a woman, he would not have done what your narcissistic boyfriend did to you.
Beware, he is back solely to finish what he had started. He is back and if he is truly a narcissist, it is likely that he will leave again. Even if he stays for good this time around, the relationship will not be less torturous than the one before. In most cases he is likely to amplify the abuse because he can confirmed that you are weak, and that he can do anything he wants with you.
Here are some reasons why the narcissist may be back in your life again:
1. He is retesting the waters to see if you are still shallow or if you have become too deep for his survival. He is trying to find out, if you are still hooked on him. He is probably testing his skills to see if you will fall for him again. To see how dumb you are and if you have matured beyond him.
2. He has ran out of narcissistic supply and harem. You are probably his last resort. He is lacking in narcissistic supply and therefore he is back to get more. He likes attention and he cannot obtain it therefore he is seeking out one of his discarded supplies that are always in storage for his droughts.
3. Your life has been improved and he wants to enjoy your accomplishments through proxy. You have become the new executive and he has decided that your new status deems you worthy of his divine association because you have something to offer. Whether it is monetary assistance based on your salary, the social connections that your job consequent or just the mere thought of saying my girlfriend is the CEO for Goldman Sachs.
4. He wants to have sex and you are readily available. Instead of having to act and woo a new supply the somatic narcissist will no doubt run for the fall back girl. Who is pining away for his return and then he will drop her and move on when a more valued conquest or narcissistic supply arrives.
5. He misses you. Don’t feel happy about this because, he may just miss you for the wrong reasons. He misses how you pandered to his every wish and hang on to his every word. He does not miss you as a person. He misses the attention and the adulation that you gave him that he is probably unable to get any where else.
But whatever the reason be for the return of your narcissist, rest assure he is leaving again when he begins to despise you for being weak and when he has discovered a more challenging potential supply. Narcissist are emotionally unavailable and have relations with women for soley primal, sexual and monetary needs. He lacks a moral conscience, he does not feel empathy. He does not care about women and he willl not take accountablity for his actions. If he is back, the best thing to do is to end the relationship before he ends it and you are being hauled through the mud again.
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