The First Kiss: Girl’s Guide

The first kiss is something which many people wonder about also feel nervous about. In this guide I will try to give some tips about how to have the perfect first kiss.

One of the most important things is that you really do want to kiss the other person and you are not pressurized into doing it. If you are not comfortable with kissing your him, tell him the truth and he should be understanding. If it is other people who are pressurizing you about it remember that your love life is none of their business and they have no right to tell you what you should and should not do.

Make sure that you choose the place you kiss carefully. Choose somewhere where they are not many people so that you and your partner can have some privacy so that you can concentrate on each other and are not distracted by an audience eager to watch your lips smack together!

Before going on your date, make sure your teeth are clean, breath smells good, etc. These are small but essential things. Give your lips a swift lick before the kiss so it won’t matter if theirs are dry. Depending on who initiated the kiss, remember to tilt your head in the opposite direction as him and close your eyes during the kiss. Don’t feel that you have to start and end the kiss by staring long and hard into each others eyes in the way it usually happens in the movies because things don’t always happen like that in real life.

Remember that you do not have to do anything you feel uncomfortable with. This means that you do not have to do Frenching if you do not wish to and your partner should not expect you to do something you don’t want to. If you don’t feel comfortable with the guy’s hands wandering all over your body in places you’d rather they didn’t go, firmly move his hands back around your waist, hips, etc. If he continues to do this make sure you tell him that you don’t want him to do that.

One thing which guys tend to find quite sexy is when the girl drops her gaze to the guy’s lips for a few brief seconds before looking back into his eyes and giving a smile. Some guys are shy and may not want to make the first move so do not feel that he has to – you can take the lead if you want to. If you want to start the kiss, put your arms gently around his neck and move closer to him but if he draws away do not force him to kiss!

Relax before and during the kiss, don’t forget to breathe (through your nose!). If you feel you are not getting enough air to breathe in you can tilt your head more or just drawing back from the kiss and go back into it later. While you are not kissing, look into each others eyes.

Try out new things! Don’t think you have to do the same things every time. Guys like it when you suck gently on their bottom lip, you could try twisting your tongue around your boyfriend’s while frenching – experiment and find out what both you and your partner enjoy.

Enjoy yourself! Don’t forget that the most important thing is that you are kissing each other because you love each other so don’t forget to enjoy it. If you have any questions, anything to add, tips, etc, please post a comment at the bottom of this article