Ten Things That Jamaican Men Do on The First Date That Turn Real Women Off

October 20, 2010 by CRYSTAL EVANS  
Published in Dating

Most women find the idea of a man pushing for sex or asking if you would consider doing it on the first date as an impression that the man is not interesting in getting to know you personally, he only wants sex. Some women are immediately turned off by men who resort to these acts.

 

 

              I recently went on a date with an older guy I met.  I noticed that he kept implying that we find a dark private corner so that we can become more intimate.  I was embarrassed and peeved by his insistence that we go to a dark side of the beach. It was our first date and I didn’t know him like that.

Here are ten experiences men constantly subject women to on the first date that are very unfavorable and annoying.

 

1.       Trying to get sex on the first date. Some men have little or no finesse. They do not know how to delicately convince a woman to give into their sexual demands. Some Jamaican man will end the date abruptly if he realizes he won’t be getting sex and excuse himself to go and do something far more interesting.  Most women find the idea of a man pushing for sex or asking if you would consider doing it on the first date as an impression that the man is not interesting in getting to know you personally, he only wants sex.  Some women are immediately turned off by men who resort to these acts.

2.       You haven’t heard from your Jamaican man in a while only to have him call you that he wants to see you. You assume that he has grown up only to find out that he was feeling horny and need to have sex right away.  He called you not for a date but to have sex. He does not offer you a drink like the real mature, refine gentleman would but instead wants to know if you wouldn’t mind having sex with him in the back of his car in one of those recently developed middle class community scheme roads.  Definitely a major turn off and an insult.

3.       A man invites you on a date and tells you to get ready then he gets an important call and instead of telling you to stay put, he lets you wait an hour or more until he arrives. The unschooled Jamaica man does not offer an apology but insist that you get in the car and once you are there, he asks you if he is going to have sex tonight because h does not want to waste his time. He apparently has no problem wasting yours; since the woman places her life on hold for an hour or so t accommodate him.  a real woman will chastise him for being late and not offering an apology. If he becomes irritable or indignant, the real woman will go back home and erase him from her mind.

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6 Responses to “Ten Things That Jamaican Men Do on The First Date That Turn Real Women Off”
  1. albert1jemi Says:

    great share

  2. Jimmy Shilaho Says:

    I am actually wondering whether those men you describe exist. If most Jamaican men are this way, please relocate to some other part of the world.

  3. LoveDoctor Says:

    Yes Leo, these men do exist and they are everywhere. It\\\’s not only the Jamaican ones, but the ones in Florida as well. It doesn\\\’t matter if they are American, Hispanic, Chinese or Black. It must be a trend these days to treat women as objects. Maybe women have a lot to do with this. Some women are too easy to hop in bed with men and then they want to be respected. A very good post.

  4. fishfry aka Elizabeth Figueroa Says:

    That was truly an amazing write. Awesome

  5. Angela Says:

    I think you are right. I did meet a Jamaican man and he suggested that he wanted to have sex at our first sit down meeting. He also professed how good he was in bed. It was the first time in my life that anybody had made such a suggestion to me. I had just met the man earlier that day while being a guest at the hotel. What do their parents teach them? I could not believe it. But it also showed that he thought that I was like many women that he has probably met before, otherwise he would not have been so out of place.

  6. kimmy Says:

    A word from a jamaican women her self, there r good n bad Ja men.the best way to deal with the ignorant low life ones u met is to be very fiesty and let them know what time a day it is,don’t take none of there crap n trust me you’ll get the respect u deserve.


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