Should You Kiss a Guy on The First Date?

November 12, 2009 by sexy sunshine143  
Published in Dating

For some people, kissing is just a game, while for others it is more special and intimate.

Locking your lips with someone for the very first time can be exciting. If you really like the other person, you might get those butterflies in your stomach. Is it okay to kiss someone on the first date? Whether you decide to kiss on the first or second date, is a matter of personal preference. However, if you do kiss your date too soon, you might come across as too desperate. Kissing is something special and intimate and if you do decide that you want to keep this person for the long run, then you are better off waiting until at least you know his name and whether he has a history of ex girlfriends.

Secondly, if you are just looking for a fling or to hook-up, then just enjoy it. I am sure that most of you are familiar with the saying that you have to kiss many frogs before you find your prince. Well, this goes for guys as well as girls. It’s best to remain a challenge when it comes to dating and relationships because mystery and adventure is what most people crave.

If you are out on a date and it’s the first time together, then enjoy the moment. This is the chance for the couple to get to know one another. If there is enough chemistry and both of you have similar interests, then there is the possibility of a second date. When your date drops you off ladies, you can give him a hug and a simple peck on the cheek or pop kiss if you want and thank him for the date. No invitation inside your place. You do want to keep him interested and give him a good impression. When he calls you to invite you on a second date, then you can take it from there. And if you are lucky enough to make a good connection, then you will have a third date. A third date is a very good sign that this guy has serious intentions in mind or at least is considering you to be his girlfriend.

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6 Responses to “Should You Kiss a Guy on The First Date?”
  1. AlmaG Says:

    First date, no kiss just good bye…
    Second date, I’d probably kiss him on the cheeks as my good bye kiss…
    3rd date, hmmm… well, it depends… I’d like to know his intentions first :)

    Very interesting article ^_^

  2. tedifa Says:

    First date, i think no kiss, we should to know who is he, deeper ..

  3. sexy sunshine143 Says:

    Great one.. I agree. No kiss on the first date.

  4. svishnugopal Says:

    wonderful stuff, according to me kissing and hugging, they ae very special and very important…not just fun…

  5. Christine Ramsay Says:

    Very good advice. I don’t think you should rush into things.

    Christine

  6. diamondpoet Says:

    I guess it’s okay as long as he/she has a copy of their medical report with them. lol


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