Should You Date Many Men at One Time?
July 20, 2009 by Kay Pierre
Published in Dating
This is on dating.
Should you date two men at a time? There are some women that would date a lot of men at one time. They are shopping for the right one. I think it’s appropriate if you’re shopping for the right one. How would you find him if you’re only dating one guy? You don’t know who else could fit you better. It might be healthier if you date a few men than just one. It gives you the opportunity to find yourself with more people. I don’t think that dating one person will help you find Mr. Right. You have to shop around until you find the one that fits you. It’s similar to buying a house. You wouldn’t buy the first thing that you see. You would shop around and then come back to the one that fits you best. This is like dating. You should date and then come back to the one that fits you best.
You have to date around if you’re young and starting out. You have to find that person for you. I don’t think it’s cheating yet because you’re dating around and you’re not in a committed relationship. There are different levels of commitment and you should know which level you’re on. Unless you’re sleeping with the men, I think you should be able to date as much as you can when you’re young. There are men out there that would fit you better than some other men. You wouldn’t know unless you date around. When you’re dating many men, you should date and don’t tell them that you’re with other men or else they will get jealous. You can tell them that you’re dating right now and trying to find the right one. You should not sleep with all of them either. You should date and get to know them but don’t be promiscuous because you can get sick.
After you find a good one, you can eliminate the rest. After you have narrowed yourself down to one man, you can tell the rest that you’re no longer available. You should do so without hurting their feelings and don’t tell them that you chose someone else over them either. It should be a secret between you and that person. If you’re in a committed relationship then dating two men at one time is considered cheating. You shouldn’t do that because you will end up in a mess. When you’re dating many men, you should keep it to yourself and don’t tell other people.
Liked it













Tell us what you're thinking...