Seven Secrets About Sex Your Man Wants You to Know

Here are seven great bits of advice for all you ladies to boost your confidence regarding what your man wants. Yes I am a woman! You must wonder who I really think I am to be saying I know what a man wants when it comes to sex.  

I am just an ordinary woman, there is nothing that makes me more qualified to know what a man wants than any man himself. I’m just telling you what he has more than likely already told you or has been afraid to tell you. You just wanted to hear if it’s true from some other woman.

It is true! I am some other woman

Men have wants too!- Doing a Google search there are many articles related to sharing what a woman wants from a man but there are minimal articles about what a man wants. Society has closed the box on mans desires and shrunk it into one sentence that seems to me to be vague. “Men want sex”. Men want their woman to know they have wants beyond sex and their passion runs deeper. If given the opportunity free of fear of disapproval a man would daringly reveal all about what feels good to him. Remember  a woman who sums up what man wants as being just sex they limit the expression of his deeper wants to being a pie shell that’s empty, Don’t you want to know the filling?

Authenticity- Men want to know the real you in the bedroom ladies! They do not want a poser, so if your guy desires something you don’t desire, don’t be a poser because he will smell the fakeness on your skin. A real deep intimacy is born from revealing the truth and being it. Besides just because you know you’re faking and not telling him doesn’t mean you are making love.

A Relaxed woman- Men respond well to army training for the purposes of war but for the purpose of the bedroom Men do NOT want to be governed. Ladies men really want to feel as though they can come to you at any time and have their needs met. So many women have this idea that if they allow their man to decide when sex is initiated that all the man wants them for is sex. Seriously! What is it with you woman? Relax and give your man what he wants. It’s only evident if a man is turned down every time he approaches his mate sexually, he will stop approaching.

Attentiveness- Ladies you are in bed, you are making love but are you really there? Your man wants to be where your entire attention is. This is extremely important. Avoid being distracted and being a distraction.  A man definitely has radar that detects rejection, even if he doesn’t express it.  He feels your absence and to him you then become like a blow up doll. Unless it’s an emergency your attention needs to remain on him!

Movement- Don’t just be lame, move! Men want to feel you move it is really saying to him “hey I want to participate” Lovemaking is the sharing of our physical bodies as well as can be deeply spiritual when desired. We all have heard of the dead fish hand shake?? Let yourself go ladies your movements can happen naturally. This is not something you should ever need to force yourself to do. If so maybe you are with the wrong man?

Cleanliness- Ladies men desire a clean woman, but cleanliness can also be something men do not want TOO much of. A woman plastered in powders and perfumes is just as much of a turn off to a man as one who has not showered for days. Find a desired balance of cleanliness, that’s what your man really wants. Have you ever tasted perfume?  So then ladies why do we believe it would taste any different to a man?

He LOVES YOU- Many women understand that by giving her body in intimate ways to her man is a way of saying I love him. But what many men want woman to understand is that this is also true for them. He wants to give you his body also because He loves you. It can only be true that when a woman rejects sex she is actually rejecting the Love her mate wants to share with her. A man who is satisfied sexually is a happy man.  When a woman withholds her body from her man eventually it leads her man to equally withhold himself emotionally and withdrawal.

Ladies the above seven bits of advice are just a beginning; there is so much your man wants you to know about him. In fact that so much is really everything! The first bit of wisdom is the most important of all! As a New wife, and a Lover I am becoming more and more aware of what my Man wants, because I know he does. If you know your guy has wants, find out what they are!! You have nothing to loose in knowing but you have everything to loose when you had no idea what he really wanted.

All the best!

I believe a Powerful love can remain strong for a lifetime when the SECRETS of wants are SHARED BETWEEN LOVERS.

Oh no! Was that not enough? Do you need more?

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