Seven More Secrets About Sex Your Man Wants You to Know

This article is intended for women when it comes to understanding your man and hopefully complimented by men. In the previous article which can be found here at Seven Secrets about Sex your Man wants you to Know I talked about how important these seven bits of wisdom are when it comes to knowing Mans sexual desires.

1) Men have wants too!

2) Men want their woman to be authentic.

3) Men want a woman who is relaxed

4) Men want an attentive woman.

5) Men want woman to move.

6) Men want a clean woman but clean can also be overdone.

7) Men give their bodies because it is an expression of love too.

(For full details please read that article)

Something to remember is the most important Secret of all “Your guy has wants!”-If you know your guy has wants, find out what they are!! You have nothing to loose in knowing but you have everything to loose when you had no idea what he really wanted. I have had a ton of fun asking my man what he wants when it comes to sex.

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Which takes us onward in this journey of discovering just what secrets a man wants a woman to know when it comes to sex.

On to the 8th want a man wants you to know about sex

Communication- How honest can you be women? Do you have limitations or feelings of shame when it comes to expression what feels good? Listen up! Your man wants to know what feels good. He wants to know where you like to be touched, how hard or soft he may caress you. He wants to know what turns you on. In communicating this with your man ladies you are actually creating a deep sense of confidence in your man. He adores knowing your excitement about what he has to offer.

Making Fun- Ladies never ever make fun of what your guy purposes or likes. You can disagree, and not want to do something but don’t ever make fun. This is very demoralizing to a man. He may feel extremely intimidated and frightened and feel as though he is confined in the relationship. Everyone has different likes and dislikes but making fun of desires in the bedroom is an intimacy killer.

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Fantasy is important to a man- Yes your fantasy is important to him but his fantasy is also important to him. Don’t be overly critical when it comes to the fantasy your guy shares with you. They are not stupid. If woman you want your man to open up about his sexuality you must be willing to accept it, or he just won’t talk about it with you anymore.

Don’t make a big deal if he loses his erection- This can happen because he is tired, or it can happen also because he was turned off by something, either way a woman must respect that.  Communicate with each other if this happens and if it is a continual problem it could be a result of a medical condition. Maybe he has no idea of why he suddenly went soft. In this type of situation don’t be slow to judge your man, don’t just him at all.  Don’t ignore sexual problems out of fear of failing. There is an explanation to everything. Search together.

It turns him off when you put yourself down ladies- Whatever could be sexy about hearing a man constantly put himself down, nothing. This is true for men also it is not sexy or flattering to put yourself down and your guy does not want to hear that. Men want a woman with self worth, but not an over exaggerated ego.

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He wants to see your body naked- Many women fear their nakedness but men are very visual and attracted to female shapes and curves. Forgive me for not remembering my resource in this but I was told by someone that when a woman exposes her vagina frequently to her lover he is less attracted to porn. This just might be true. Give it a try; I’m certain he won’t complain. Remember you don’t have to be perfect, or look perfect to enjoy sex.

A Man Sexual Desire is Natural- “Be fruitful and multiply” Sex/ Love making is Natural. I am talking about Sex drive. Animals mate and so do humans.

(All deeper intimacy comes from communication and learning about your partner.) Spoken by Dr Oz from the Oprah show “a man should have sex 4 times a week for best possible health”

 Don’t get upset with him for wanting to be healthy that’s not fair to him!

I hope these help have fun with them all!

Until next time.