Men’s Secret Wishes
This is the result of a fun survey I did with a group of friends. Your man may have a fantasy that he won’t tell you.
Let’s surprise the man in your life with this list. I am sure you have heard or read this before, but maybe hesitated; why not fire up your relationship a notch as one of your New Year’s resolutions?
Wake Him up, Completely Naked
This is your man’s number one secret wish for those that going to bed fully dressed. He wants to be waked up by you, completely naked. Perhaps you could tell him that you had a terrible nightmare, you can’t go back to sleep, and ask him to hold you tightly.
Frequent Intimacy
Men like to have more frequency of intimacy. They might be content with one to two times a week, but if you could just increase the number a bit, his fantasy will fly out of the window. For married couples with children, finding time to be intimate is what he is craving for.
Dirty Talk
A little dirty talk goes along way. It is in his mind, but he won’t tell you that. Dirty talk doesn’t have to be vulgar or out of your characters. Say something that you normally prefer not to. Compliment his eagerness to please. Stroke his ego.
Wear Sexy Lingerie
What man doesn’t want to see his lover in sexy lingerie? Victoria’s Secret and Frederick’s of Hollywood stores bank big money on these items. Just watch the commercials from those sweet angels of Victoria’s Secret, and pay attention to your man sometimes. He does like that skimpy fabric on you.
Be Adventurous
This includes wearing nothing at all or sexy lingerie, under your rain coat, and shows up at his office for lunch. Imagine his surprise! This could be his ultimate fantasy that he has not yet let you in. Public places are dangerous, but also an exciting adventure to his senses.
Healthy relationship requires creativities. Everybody knows that sexuality is a big important part for any couples. Grant him his wishes and see how happy he is.
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January 4th, 2008 at 11:08 am
Interesting list Icy but mine says his secret wish is a cup of tea and a bacon sandwich to wakeup to! Awwww!
January 4th, 2008 at 2:34 pm
I don’t think I should mess with a good thing Icy. If I tried one of the suggestions above he would begin to expect it. Right now I have him down to clean clothes, hot meals, and a bit of TV before bed. If we want more excitement, then a piece of pie with TV is in order. It’s quiet,comfortable,and easy.
All kidding aside, it’s a good article and the tips are interesting.
January 4th, 2008 at 3:05 pm
You do have a lot of good tips and I’m sure most men would enjoy it, but as Darlene says mine is happy with clean clothes and a baked potato. I wouldn’t want him to have a heart attack.
January 4th, 2008 at 3:54 pm
You go Icy ♥♥
*great article!
January 4th, 2008 at 4:02 pm
Interesting survey. Good job, Icy. It is good to shake things up a little in a marriage, as long as we don’t spoil these guys. lol
January 4th, 2008 at 4:25 pm
Very cute article.
Best wishes.
Sincerely,
-Liane Schmidt.
January 4th, 2008 at 5:59 pm
Personally, I like the article. It makes me remember the good times three years ago when I met my husband. Jeez, what happened! Thanks for sharing this.
January 5th, 2008 at 1:24 am
Amen.
January 5th, 2008 at 6:43 am
Cucky, my husband I’m sure would love one of these even though our marriage is still quite fresh even after 11 years.
Incidentally, my only New Years’ resolution is to be more affectionate as he seems to be the affectionate one.
Good article! It made me think
January 5th, 2008 at 8:35 am
Interesting survey Icy. But somehow difficult to follow because of …. LOL
January 5th, 2008 at 5:11 pm
Yeah, all that’s nice. But it gets old quick.
Nothing gets a man’s cookies hotter than a little bit of TLC and a great heart-to-heart talk.
Shocking? Well a lap dance wouldn’t hurt…
January 5th, 2008 at 6:39 pm
Very interesting article. I really enjoyed reading it.
January 5th, 2008 at 8:51 pm
Great article!
Best wishes.
Sincerely,
-Liane Schmidt.
January 6th, 2008 at 9:35 pm
Icy,
This is a great article. But if my wife did any of these things, we would be homeless in a month, because I’d never go to work!
She already thinks I’m a sex maniac. Fantastic article!
Randy
January 7th, 2008 at 4:29 am
Hmm hmmm, lots of good thoughts!
January 7th, 2008 at 8:52 am
it is a wonderful write up, keep it up
January 10th, 2008 at 11:01 am
I had fun writing this, and have fun reading all the comments. Thank you!
February 27th, 2008 at 8:01 pm
Who the hell said that “Nothing gets a man’s cookies hotter than a little bit of TLC and a great heart-to-heart talk”? I feel sorry for that chick’s man. A “heart-to-heart talk”? Instead of being awakened by a naked spouse?!? And I’m guessing that she loves to get vacuum cleaners and irons as anniversary/birthday gifts?
February 28th, 2008 at 2:12 pm
…on target once
again. Comments are
very entertaining.
February 28th, 2008 at 3:45 pm
Drcube2000, I guess you are not a typical man,eh?
IcyCucky, I am sure my hubby would love every single hint of yours but I am too shy to follow your article to the exact detail. May be you should write an article on how to get over shyness! You have a good writing style!
February 29th, 2008 at 1:20 am
Man’s secret wishes?
1. BJ
2. Meatloaf
XD
February 29th, 2008 at 1:31 pm
Not my man. I want it to have sex all the time, he complains that I want it to much.
He needs to get used to it….
I’M DIEIN OVA HEA!
July 20th, 2008 at 1:31 pm
Great reminder of “the good ol’ days” that I need to work more on getting back to. Keep up the great writing!
July 21st, 2008 at 1:02 am
Interesting to read again.
July 21st, 2008 at 4:56 am
Great article, I agree with your suggestions.
July 22nd, 2008 at 4:38 pm
What a super idea about interviewing your male friends. Now that’s what I should be doing to come up with some articles, interview my friends. Thanks for the heap of info!
July 23rd, 2008 at 9:05 am
That was hot! And, sexy.