Looking for Mr. Right: Six Types of Men to Avoid
While you’re looking for Mr. Right, avoid these six types of men.
Looking for Mr. Right is a serious goal for many women. But there is no exact formula for finding one. Some women claim that when the right man comes along, they just know. This is the heart talking. But we know that the heart has no brains so we don’t just know. We use our brains to know. It’s ironic that when the love bug bites, even the smartest lady goes around in a cloudy haze ignoring friends and living out her fairy tale romance with her prince.
Now, before you get a bad bite from the love bug, let’s do some brain work by learning the types of men to avoid when choosing Mr. Right.
The Liar
Putting up with a dishonest man makes a stupid martyr out of a woman. It may be hard to change the ways of a constant liar. Remember that this man could become your husband or the father of your children in the future. You do not want to live in a sham the rest of your life.
The Cheater
Beware of a man who cheats on his partner to pursue you. He will most likely do the same to you if you fall for his romantic ploy. You wouldn’t want to live with a bothered conscience or play the fool in a game of deception.
The Blow-off
Have you encountered a man who frequently breaks his promise or doesn’t show up on a date? You’re in tough luck. You’ve encountered a blow-off man. It is dumb to waste your time on him because he seems to have fun making women feel desperate. It is best to cut ties with him or pretend he does not exist.
The Alcoholic or Drug Addict
Being in the company of an alcoholic or drug addict is a risk to one’s safety and integrity. When a man is under the influence of alcohol or drugs, he may commit monstrous acts that could endanger your life or cause social embarrassment to you and your family. Spare yourself from grave scandal or from being thrown in jail for drug possession. You deserve a peaceful life.
The Sex-obsessed
Sometimes, a man just wants one thing in a relationship and that is sex. He comes real strong by advancing more and more with his busy forelimbs. After he gets what he wants, he may drop you like a hot potato. Steer clear of such a man who treats women as sex objects.
The Abuser
Some men are capable of throwing hurtful words or hitting women. They have a twisted sense of masculinity where they show their power by hurting someone. Stay away from these men… far, far away. No woman deserves to be treated like a punching bag.
Now you know the types of men to avoid when looking for Mr. Right. They are all around making women’s lives miserable like hell. If you do not allow yourself to fall into you romantic illusions, you will not just know when Mr. Right comes along. You will be in the know. That makes it all worth waiting for.
Likha is an expert author at EzineArticles.com and is a proud member of The Filipino Diaspora.
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June 3rd, 2011 at 9:32 pm
A very handy tips for women who desire genuine relationship. If you can add, then Don’t pick a man is a Kiss-and-tell.
June 3rd, 2011 at 9:36 pm
good tips, the problem is you usually don’t find it out until you’re married to him.
June 3rd, 2011 at 10:21 pm
Excellent advice. Brain before the heart, so don’t be a slave to cupid, dissect the man : head to toe, inside out, don’t leave any cell unturned…hahaha!
June 4th, 2011 at 12:14 am
You are very right. If I were a woman, I woulds run away or report these men to the police.
June 4th, 2011 at 12:27 am
Useful information
June 4th, 2011 at 2:51 am
awesome write up
June 4th, 2011 at 4:57 am
This is great, nay likha! But isn’t being a liar part of being a man? LOL!
June 4th, 2011 at 5:54 am
Very good article. I hope that all women will start acting according to this advice soon. It would result in many more girls/women being single rather than constantly in some pointless relationship … I think you know where I am heading, haha … more opportunities for me as I am one of those men who do not fit into any of these categories and for some reason most good girls seem to go for the bad boys.
June 4th, 2011 at 6:43 am
So true but I won’t avoid them, I’d slap them…LOL
June 4th, 2011 at 8:50 am
Haha,I knew it,men will react,lol!
Brilliant tips inay!
June 4th, 2011 at 10:26 am
What about the Mr. Nit Picky, who stressed out with details? Or the mushroom guy, someone who would sprout during rainy moments?lol. I certainly am avoiding men currently, they have a way on making my life more complicated than the usual.
June 4th, 2011 at 2:52 pm
Those tend to be the top of men that women should avoid. Of course, one would argue those are not attractive qualities in a woman either.
June 4th, 2011 at 7:35 pm
I am so glad my husband is not one of these. Scary men
And a good eye-opener for most ladies.
June 4th, 2011 at 9:38 pm
@AJ: parang napaisip tuloy ako na nurse ka nga talaga hahaha!
@Likha: Really good tips Madam counselor
June 4th, 2011 at 9:47 pm
Sometimes these individuals are so good at hiding these things that the woman is blindsided! Wonderful information which should be shared with all women.
June 4th, 2011 at 11:34 pm
Again, this makes me glad I am married.
June 5th, 2011 at 11:15 pm
Superb guidance for every woman
June 6th, 2011 at 12:15 am
Ugh. All horrible.
June 6th, 2011 at 1:31 pm
A very sensible article!
June 6th, 2011 at 7:30 pm
nice tips. i like it!. tnx…
June 7th, 2011 at 5:53 am
very good reminders, shall pass these tips to my girlfriend who is shopping for Mr Right, but “no stock”.
June 8th, 2011 at 10:38 pm
very good. you are so correct and its concise and gets straight to the point. great article
June 12th, 2011 at 3:21 pm
A very good analysis, as always with you sister.
June 13th, 2011 at 7:03 am
We also have the user-friendly guys– those that ask you to do their homework or to make coffee or to wash their clothes. These men treat you like you’re a maid or something. Beware of those guys as well.