Keepin` It Hot

August 21, 2009 by xxmimiiszdxp3xx  
Published in Dating

What happened to that fire that you had in the beginning of your relationship? Has it run out? Do you feel like your relationship got more boring as the days, months & years go by? Do you feel like you dont like you partner as much as you did the first time your relationship started? Ladies,if this is you.. then this informative article has been written for you. Find out how you can get the fire back in your relationship. And keep it burning..

Think all the way back in the days… Not back when Jesus Christ was alive, but just about far enough when your relationship with “Him” first started….

It probably started off as a hot date. He would forever be sweet to you.. Tell you how gorgeous you are even when you’re at your worse. He would want to be with you every minute of the day and cherish you like a brother or sister. You probably felt more in love back then, than you do right now. So you want to have that feeling again huh? You’ve been craving for it like a delicious cheesecake for some time now. Trust me, been there, done that, you just need to know and follow these simple rules and your fire will continue to shine bright.. Even when the worse of storms come through, your relationship will be saved… Thanks to who? Oh yeah. ME! =)

Well, to tell you the truth.. I have no idea what your problem is because everybody has their own relationship problems. But if you want to just get your relationship back on track then keep reading..

  1. First thing, don’t try to run his life.. Try to change him into “the man of your dreams” or simply take over the relationship. Women tend to do this when the get in a relationship because they dont know what to do to keep “Him”. “He” likes to be the MAN. Most guys feel as if it is their job to keep you happy and do the manly work. If you try to take over then they’ll feel like they’re being whipped and has no part in the relationship. And yes men are tough to deal with but please dont try to change them. They want to know that you love them unconditionally and you love them just the way they are. If you try to change them into something they’re not, then the relationship is bound to get messed up. And we do not want that now do we? …… Exactly
  2. Second thing you need to know is that just because you’re in a relationship dont mean you have to be JUST the girlfriend or wife. You want to be close to him. Almost like a best friend. You want him to be able to talk to you about ANYTHING and you want him to feel comfortable around you. Even when he’s being a slob, at least you know that you guys are that close that he can act a slob around you. Be like his “homie”. Another word for a best guy friend. Watch the football game with him. Try to enjoy the things that he likes. And try to get him to enjoy the things you like without forcing him or seem as if you’re ordering him into doing it. And not anything girly either. Men dont like those kind of things. They want to be and act a man in front of you and impress you no matter how long you’ve been together. He still wants to be the man that he is so you have to accept that.
  3.  Remember that you both are about the same age. So, therfore you both have to treat each other with the same respect. You cant be speaking to him as if he’s a child. Even if he acts like one and women grow maturally faster but he’s still a person. And if you treat him like that it definitely would cause some bad effect in your relationship and that’s what we’re trying to avoid. Am I right or am I right? Always show love and affection and respect for him as he would do the same.
  4. Lastly, be yourself. Dont be too b*tchy. Dont be to jealous and if you are dont show it. Dress appropriately.Dont be annoying, like all up on him all the time. Try to be his friends friend and be fun and outgoing. Men loves a girl that he can have fun with and if you guys are having fun then it will never get boring. DUHHH. Keep in mind that just because your in a relationship doesnt mean you have to act a certain way. Well, I take that back you do. But you have to just learn to be a positive person emotionally, verbally, physically and spiritually. If you learn to master these four simple steps. I bet you wont be reading any more articles on how to “fix” your relationship or get that fire going again.

In conclusion, you dont have to change much to be that perfect girlfriend. Its not something you’re born with but everybody can change for the better. And everybody wants a long lasting sparking relationship right? Its normal and if you have any further questions feel free to email me at and i’ll be happy to help you. And by the end of the day.. The fire in your relationship will be so bright that that the sun would have to retire. =] Now am I right or am I right?

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One Response to “Keepin` It Hot”
  1. Redburn Says:

    An awesome article. Sad to see you have no Like yet and this is just the first comment.

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