Is He in Love with Your Best Friend? Wake Up

Often time’s ladies fail to read the obvious signs that the so called men in their lives have that capability to goes behind their backs and instead befriend and even go that clandestine mile to sleep with them

The clues below will some what open your eyes and watch each and every step that your so called fiancée might try to take to betray your trust.

1. When he unconsciously keeps referring to her names in your presence. The moment you hear him constantly referring to her name even in her absence, better watch out. He is definitely up to some thing. It indirectly implies that she is on his mind all the time and is planning to plot doom by making secret invitations and calls to her
2. When he showers her with endless praises both in your presence and in her absence. Such words of praise by the love of you life should certainly send chills down your spine because it also means that he is losing interest in you.
3. When he displays signs of jealousy as she interacts with other men. This sign should be easy to tell because, often time when you have some get-together parties either at his home or any other designated place. During that time when every body is excited and dancing, your boy friend might spot your best friend dancing with someone else. And just in the heat of the moment, he might decline to dance with you but keep a watchful and jealous eye on your best dancing strokes with the other man
4. When he keeps asking about her whereabouts should she take long without paying you a visit. For instance he visibly shows some concern that your best friend seems to have shunned you and some efforts must be made to invite her for dinner. Be warned. He is not necessarily inviting her to come and visit you as her best friend. He is inviting her for himself.
5. When he offers secret gifts to her without your knowledge and warns her not to reveal the gifts to you. This sort of clandestine offers a serious clue that your boy friends attention is slowly drifting away from you
6. Sometimes, he may criticize you for offending him in her presence. Beware that this is real blackmail and slandering on your person. He is trying to create the impression that your friend is far much better than you
7. When he secretly sends erotic text messages to your friend without your knowledge and secretly advises her not to disclose them to you.
8. When he constantly extends to her unplanned invitations to sumptuous luncheons or dinner without your knowledge and some often denies having made such a gesture when you later find out.
9. When he lies that she is trying to make passes at him. These lies should send warning bell to you that the lie is simply an excuse to justify his uncontrollable libido and you should actually begin worrying that he is about to sleep with her.
10. When he gets the chance and actually sleeps with her, and begins distancing himself from you. By this point in time, you should actually begin considering yourself as a door mat that has lost its usefulness. No man ever sleeps with your best friend and you expect him to ever respect you again because he will have sampled, juxtaposed and made his own weird conclusions of how cheap and undeserving both of you are to him. To him you and your best fiends are simply sex machines that can be used and dumped any time like hot potatoes