Intelligent Unattached Girlfriends: Tips on How to Have a Man

Feminism strongly places men as being of no greater material worth than women.  Femininity and old-fashion courtship are out because they were never integral to the human condition.
 
Some girlfriends are not successful when it comes to seeking boyfriends who are considering serious relationship.  It is not that they are not skillful, when it comes to meeting men who are ready for mature relationships, but there are reasons why they cannot seem to make the connections. Could it be that boyfriends find their assertiveness a possible threat to their egos?

The intelligence and assertiveness of girlfriends do not really scare men away.  As a matter of fact, most men find intelligent women highly desirable.

However, there are two basic reasons why intelligent girlfriends are unattached for too long.  First, they are too busy to get out there and make serious relations. These women, who claim that their intelligence and success are too intimidating, are failing to comprehend the charms of a bat of their eyelashes or a pert toss of the head. Thus, when they try to have a serious relationship they, instead, fall flat on their faces because of their inability to invest  more time in maintaining a relationship and to generally make it the centre of her life.

Thus, intelligent girlfriends, who would love to meet and date men, actually do not try to make it happen. Rather, they choose to do other things along with the hope that one day Prince Charming will just go find them.

On the other hand, there are men out there whose yearning to have a serious relationship with intelligent girlfriends. However, after couple of dates, the about to become mature liaison dwindles, the enchantment and motivation gone. He and 80% of the male population are intimidated by the strong, beautiful and assertive but picky and hard-to-please intelligent girlfriends.

So, what is wrong with these women? Is it their seeming ability to be more forceful than men that turn them off? Do they have to act dumb and submissive to attract serious relationships?

Why is it that some women get asked out all the time and others rarely or not at all? Here, dating experts offer intelligent girlfriends tips on how to get a date for serious relationship. So, smart girls, try these tips, and get ready to be asked out.

Tips

1. Men recognize that dating intellectual girlfriends is nerve-racking.  So, if you like the boyfriend, free the man of insecurity and fear of rejection by showing the fascination.  It is nice to give some simple indicator of interest every once in a while.
2. One major obstacle to serious relationship is lost momentum, which is the result of awkward silence, graceless conversation, or entice-play-release attitude.  Asking questions will show even the most timid man that the girl is interested. To put his mind at ease, smile when he suggests an activity and say something like, “I love to check that out with you.”  However, a girl that gives only minimal amount of response is a sign of rejection–woman’s way of saying, “I can’t wait to get rid of you.”
3. Be the woman. Intelligent girlfriends are highly-assertive and have tons of confidence.  However, along with smartness in all aspects should be the grace and finesse that is innate of a woman.

It is wonderful to know that most women are empowered and secure about themselves. However, boyfriends do not go for the full embodiment of self-sufficiency.   Contrary to the modern superwoman, men consider too much independence in a woman a turn off.  After all, if a woman can do everything . . . what else can the man give her? She must also need something from him because they are a couple.  A couple, in emotionally healthy relationship, gives and receives equally–approximately of identical amounts.

In today’s world of courtship, the power dynamic is an interesting one. The aroma of male power is an aphrodisiac for women, but the perfume of female power is a turn-off for men.  Men love interesting intelligent girlfriends, those who are easy to please, down to earth and simple in attitude–who still wants their doors opened and their seats pulled out for them.