I Would Rather be Dateless Than Date a Virgo Man
Tell me I am wrong when you see their traits.
I was at work and this young girl tells me that she met this guy but he was a big problem. Before she went any further I told her I bet he is a Virgo. She said yes how could you know? He is a handsome fire fighter and she was so taken by his good looks and physical great body. It was not hard to figure out what this guy did to her in a short 3 month period. I have studied the male Virgo sign for 39 years. Their behavior has not changed from one male Virgo to another. We, as woman are very attracted to their sign, their appearance and their charm in the beginning is so wonderful. Virgo men try to pick needy woman, from the start they are setting up their sense of control. In the beginning the Virgo male will want to know more about you, and they will reveal very little about them self. They need to be your world and center of attention. At the start of the relationship they will show up where you work, usually without any prior notice. What they are actually doing is getting a feel for what you are doing. They have a sense of adventure and a bad boy side, a strong protective male feeling that they want you to think is caring and love.
They appear to be very dependable, but they all seem to have very common traits. I have found that most of them did not have a good child hood. Abuse was present, or they came from a divorced household. There usually was a dominating father who used physical abuse to control the spouse. The Virgo male begins to show their traits of control usually after they convince you to marry them. After the marriage they tend to feel more secure that it will be harder for you to escape or leave them. Virgo men start taking your independence away, bit by bit. Your self-esteem is taken away. Your family and friends create a problem for them, so they want to move you away further from any one that can interfere with the plan. The plan continues creating the fear to control. The finances are controlled by the Virgo man, the automobiles are controlled by him, your phone usage, who you talk to every day. Your daily activities and tasks are all to please him. Usually the woman begins walking around on egg shells to prevent disturbing him at all and takes the blame for everything that he has done to them or any one else. Once you speak up, nine out of ten times you will be the victim of verbal then physical abuse. I was beaten for not cooking his eggs correctly, I was instructed to bake several pies a day or I would be beaten. I was talked into selling my car because we did not need my car. He had a room where he locked up all his things, and would want you to beg on your knees for money for groceries. It got worse when I had his son and he was born with bilateral club feet. He felt the child was not worthy to be his son. He had guns and rifles and telescopes. I was 23 years old at that time. I still remember when he would point a loaded gun at me and threaten to kill me. My first husband was also a Virgo, I did not know that the sign could influence their behavior. It was very difficult to get rid of the second one, but when I fought back, I did get rid of him forever.