How to Know If a Boy Likes You
Simple suggestions to girls that want to find out if a boy likes them.
It is a rather common question that bugs some girls. It isn’t easy to find out, but it is possible to at least try to find out a bit of his opinion about you.
Attention. Most boys do show attention to girls in a daily basis without any more reasons than fun, but, there is a chance that if a boy likes you, he would show attention to you more than other boys. If he starts talking to you a few times a day or more it may be a sign. Of course you must see how he reacts with other girls, because if he is a chatty person, he would talk a lot with everyone, so don’t get mistaken. Of course if a boy is not showing a lot of attention, it doesn’t mean that he doesn’t like you. He might just be shy and a bit scared, because he is afraid to see what you might think of him. If you have a hunch that a shy boy likes you, you might want to talk to him and show that there is nothing to be afraid of.
Time. If you are a friend with a boy and you want to know if he likes you should see how much time he spends with you. Chatting, text messaging, talking… Everything counts. If it’s above average of the attention you get from other boys he might like you, though that isn’t 100% accurate. A better way of seeing is to put him in a situation where he needs to do something for you. And that thing shouldn’t be that easy, it should interrupt his daily basis and things like that. If he cancels something he was looking forward to and doest what you ask him to, that is a great hunch that he likes you or thinks you as a very good friend (that could most likely lead to liking too)
Money. This method should be used a bit carefully, so the boy doesn’t think that all you want from him is money, but when you’re together you should walk by an ice cream stand or anything else, you can say that you want ice cream or just stay silent looking at the stand. If he buys you ice cream or anything that might be a sign that he likes you. If he says that he has no money that could mean that he has no money or he doesn’t want to spend any.
Care. It’s pretty hard to use, but it mostly will show if he likes you. If something bad happens to you, you have an argument with someone and things like that, you should tell the boy and if he tries to comfort you, to say that everything is fine etc. that is a pretty good sign that you have a person who cares for you and likes you.
With these simple “test” you can try to find out whether he likes you or not. Of course it’s never 100% accurate, but it’s worth a shot.
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April 2nd, 2009 at 7:45 am
i like this boy.
He doesn’t get along with my friend.
U see, i have never talked to him.
Then today, he talked to my friend.
I was with her.
He is always mean to her but today, when i was with her, he wasn’t mean to her.
I dunno i f he likes me cause he always stares at me.
It is quite confusing.
I need help…………..
April 19th, 2009 at 8:18 am
First see if he is looking at you. Next wach out if he is acting diffent when you are around.
May 23rd, 2009 at 8:53 am
Theres this guy i like and my friends say he likes me back hes always talking to me and playing around with me but he alwyas says he hates me does he actually hate me or that he just says that because he likes me?i need help
May 24th, 2009 at 1:55 pm
Thats actually pretty interesting. Maybe he’s just playing around by saying that he hates you. Well you could try to talk to him eye to eye where no one’s around and ask him is he really hates you or if hes just joking, because it somehow “hurts your feeling a bit” – a random lie to make him think about what he’s doing.
He’s paying attention to you, so i guess he might like you. When i actually hate a person, i really do. I try to avoid him. Now this, i think is just playing around. Confront him
Hope this helps
June 2nd, 2009 at 8:03 pm
There is a guy and we went out he cheated on me and he was a big jerk then things settled down and we were friends. i still reaslly really reaslly like him he akways makes fun of me and then goes im sry im sry and puts his arm around me for like 2 seconds and he always like bumps into me and laughs and always making fun of me and his a big flirt…..help!
June 18th, 2009 at 3:34 pm
Im in 5th grade and i really like this boy in 6th grade. I never talked to him but i do brush up agaist him and stuff like that. One day he came up to me and sarcasticaly said “I wouldnt want to be in a dark alley with you” Another day he said “Shawty lick the rapper” so it is like he is flirting with me. Does he like me? What should i do?
July 8th, 2009 at 4:37 pm
help theres this boy in my english class whos my friends ex she hates him and i do but for some reason i know he likes me how do i let him down easily
July 8th, 2009 at 4:40 pm
help this boy flirts with me a lot and itz really annoying i thought it waz a joke until he went serious telling me he loves me putting hiz hand on my thigh how can i tell if hes joking or not
July 10th, 2009 at 10:29 pm
tell him that u dont wnt a relation ship with him and if u sort of like him tell ur friend
2 talk 2 him
October 5th, 2009 at 8:12 pm
K so I like this guy but icant tell if he likes me back. He fliers with me and I flirt back. How do I get him to ask me out or just tell me he likes me?
October 16th, 2009 at 10:32 pm
ok. i have a boy i like but i dont know if he likes me back. he always tries to sit next to me. I try to see if he likes me or not . i need help
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