How to Find and Date a Good Hearted Man

September 24, 2007 by aleong  
Published in Dating

They say a good man is hard to find. This is not necessarily so. You just need to know where to look.

If you’re tired of dating guys who are more wrapped up in their image than they are in your well being, it might be time to find a different sort of romantic interest. Instead of looking for the man with the cutest face and the biggest bank account, why not date a man with a good heart? You might actually enjoy being treated with kindness and respect for a change. Before you can date a good hearted man, you’ve got to find him. With a little planning and knowledge, this shouldn’t be a difficult task.Here are some great places to find a good man:


This speaks for itself. A man who goes to church is probably concerned with more than how buff his body looks in the mirrored walls at the gym. He seeks out the spiritual and looks beyond physical appearances for something that’s more meaningful and permanent.. To find this good hearted man, you’ll need to visit a church with a significant single population. When you attend church services, look for this kind soul seated alone and squeeze into the pew beside him. It could be the start of something beautiful.

The Dog Park

Do you remember what your mother told you about the characteristics of a good man? He loves dogs, children, and his mother. This makes your local dog park a natural place to find the good man. Of course, if you have a dog, you’ll fit in quite naturally in this setting. Just put a leash on Fido and head towards the closest dog park. A word of warning.You may want to avoid the tough guy type with the giant Rottweiller or aggressive Pit Bull. This guy usually fails to meet the criteria for being a good hearted man.

A Charitable Party

The good hearted man you’re so eagerly searching for may be found among the participants at a local charity sponsored party. The chances of meeting your man increases if the charity event happens to be child or animal related. Remember what your mother told you? You may want to find out what charitable organizations exist in your local area and get yourself on the mailing list. They don’t have to know that the charity you’re most concerned about is yourself.

Volunteer Jobs

This is a slightly different variation of the charitable party. The good hearted man gives not only with his pocketbook but also with his time. You may find your dream man volunteering at a local hospital, a homeless shelter, or any number of other organizations that seek to help those in need. Again, give extra points for a man volunteering at an animal shelter or children’s hospital. His heart is definitely in the right place.

There you have it. Four places to find a good man. Who said a good man is hard to find?

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2 Responses to “How to Find and Date a Good Hearted Man”
  1. Dely Says:

    My husband found me instead of the other way around. Love finds you; not the other way around. Yes, we met in church, but you don’t attend church to find a mate. You go to church to worship God and have a relationship with Him. The main factor is motivation. I am thankful and grateful to say we just celebrated our 15th wedding anniversary.


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