How to Defeat Your Love Enemies
When a woman met the desirable man, she may need to compete with other women for his love. Learn how to defeat your love enemies and win the love.
Love relationship is always complicated and it is never easy to have a successful one. Since good men are scarce, women have to be very careful in finding the other half and they always need to face great competition. How can a woman be outstanding to her desirable man and defeat all love enemies? This is an advanced knowledge that is not taught in school. Women have to learn from their own experience and sharing from others. This article will discuss the critical methods. Use it as a checklist sees if any areas you are not doing well enough. Improve yourself and fight for your happiness.
(Two women fighting for a man, image from Google Search)
1. Offer more real love
In a love competition, do not blindly offer quantity and neglect quality. Very often the so-called “loving” acts from a woman do not live up to a man’s expectation. To win a man’s love, woman has to be particularly sensitive to his needs, and offer suitable understanding, care and action that can earn appreciation. The feeling of warmth and being cherished will melt your desirable man’s heart and draw him closer to you.
2. Be more beautiful
Not every man insists on having a natural born beauty. We all know that physical beauty will somehow deteriorate due to aging. However, a woman can always make herself look more beautiful with neatness, proper make-up and clothing. Your continuous effort in surpassing the love enemies will gain the man’s respect and increase his confidence in your ability to make things better.
3. Earn more money
Frankly, it may be unrealistic to expect a man paying all the family expenses. More couples are sharing the expenses start from dating. It is always an ideal to earn more money than your love enemies. Your financial well-off will lessen the man’s pressure and lurk him to dream a better living in the future that is more achievable if he stays with you throughout.
4. Cultivate your knowledge
Read more books and take some courses that can improve the living quality for both of you. Learn cooking, doing housework and home decorations, etc. Invite your man to see your achievement. You can bake him some cookies, make him a birthday cake and offer him a knitted neckerchief in winter. Show off whenever appropriate.
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August 24th, 2011 at 3:12 am
Sometimes it is difficult to win someone’s love as love is blind. But your advises will surely help in competition.
August 24th, 2011 at 3:14 am
You are spot on here! But having lived and grown up in a polygamous society, I can say that, besides all these methods you have discussed, some women in my country apply witchcraft to win the love of their men-they simply send a spell the man’s way and either the other women competing for him begin to stink so horribly when they are with the man or the man simply fails to function sexually when with other women, but very sexually alert when with her and only her!
August 24th, 2011 at 5:10 am
Good… enjoyable article.
August 24th, 2011 at 5:28 am
excellent post.
August 24th, 2011 at 6:38 am
So much really valuable advice there. I am sure many women can learn from it.
August 24th, 2011 at 6:48 am
You have great tips here but honestly, I’m the type of person who doesn’t want to compete with anybody especially if love is concerned. I’ll just let my man go if he we wants me to.
August 24th, 2011 at 9:48 am
very good advice, well done Linda. However, I will leave it to the guy, if he sees the other person better than me and chooses her, I will let it be, but he may regret it later and want me back, by then I am already with my second best, application closed, hahaha….
August 24th, 2011 at 4:55 pm
A well written article, but I say, if he doesn’t want you, don’t bother with him, go out and find someone better.
August 24th, 2011 at 6:22 pm
Linda, does LCM stand for Love Coach Mega?
August 24th, 2011 at 7:10 pm
This is really good information. It seems as if some men would want a woman to change in order to keep them. Thanks for sharing.
August 24th, 2011 at 8:14 pm
throw him back in the pond, there’s more fish in the sea.
August 25th, 2011 at 1:19 pm
Good review.
August 25th, 2011 at 11:15 pm
Good read for lovers, people in-love and relationships..
August 26th, 2011 at 3:35 am
A lot of sound advice anyone can try to learn.
August 26th, 2011 at 2:49 pm
Thanks for sharing
August 28th, 2011 at 10:45 am
It’s hard to say there is a universal rule for this, as all beings are different, but it is a good share you done here.
August 28th, 2011 at 9:52 pm
Very practical tips. I was smiling while reading this. To a certain degree, this is funny. Probably because I’m older now. Many women will benefit from these tips.
August 29th, 2011 at 12:16 pm
nice sharing
September 1st, 2011 at 10:24 am
Nice share
September 3rd, 2011 at 12:55 pm
Good share.
September 6th, 2011 at 12:51 pm
great share
November 29th, 2011 at 4:05 pm
Nice article. I like it!
March 1st, 2012 at 11:03 am
still working on the second point ^,^