How to Deal with Male Threats

If a man makes these comments, he is threatening.

Those are your friends who are talking about you.

Dear, could you tell me who those friends are who are talking about me and why are you listening to them? Just what are they saying and about what? Is it something that they want? What do you mean you can’t tell me? Is it because there is nothing to tell and you are using them to vent your own feelings of inadequacy about our relationship. I really don’t like it when you talk to these anonymous friends and then call me up. It sounds sinister. Dear if you can’t tell me then it’s because you don’t love me and you are using our relationship to further some private agenda of your own. Maybe we should see a therapist.

You’re a whore if you talk about my friends screwing around, only whores talk like that.

Then, when you are not alone, you can decide whether or not to leave. Never confront a man who makes a statement like that.

You talk like that. That whore you see when I am at work talks like that. I can call a whore a whore anytime I feel like it and who are you to tell me that I am to be a target for your whores. If you don’t want me talking like that, then quit treating me to barbs about whores who are and worthless females like myself who have to be the brunt of your paid bimbos.

Then, when you are not alone, you can decide whether or not to leave. Never confront a man who makes a statement like that.

Just try and get a client if you turn me down.

If you call this office again, I will notify the police.

Then, do not call the police. Call a lawyer. Chances are that a male or female making that kind of statement has political clout which translates to police control. Do not back down and be ready for anything.

She’s really married; you only have a ring and a ceremony.

I must really be as lonely as I thought I was to be in this marriage. Let’s find a therapist and see if we can’t start somewhere in the middle and work our way backwards, both of us backing off in the opposite directions.

Then, when you are not alone, decide if you can continue with that kind of humiliating attack. Become closer to his family, if you can. Keep a friend over the house.