How to Date a Japanese Guy: Part One
If you are interested in dating a man other than your own specifically to a Japanese man then this article is for you.
Modern Japanese men are very enticing though most of them cannot communicate in English language they are very fashionable and most of them are getting open and ready for diversity, mixed races that is. But warned you, most older men have racism in their minds. Japanese men aging 40 down are open for mixed races since those ages witness how Japan immigration are inviting foreigners to work in Japan to cover-up their low fertility rate. There are a lot of foreigner workers in Japan working as English teachers, Engineers, Scientists, IT professionals, medical works apart from the traditional works of foreigners in the entertainment industry and factory works. Foreign workers are all over Japan with all ages and genders. Most young Japanese people aging 40 down are now very open to foreigners but not the late 40’s , 50’s and above. These age bracket (late 40’s and above) are prone to discriminating the foreigners. This is just a hint but of course it depends on your adventures in Japan.
Being with them for many years, I can say people are people but culture plays a big role in affecting the way people thing, act, speak, gestures and decision. Japanese men (I am talking to the young age bracket) are increasingly engaging in mixed-race relationship and marriage both men and women. More women are engaging in interracial relationship than men but this year alone there are noticeably increasing numbers of Japanese men marrying with women outside their race.
Japanese men in general are gentlemen, good providers and workaholic. They are shy and have a different way and time to have fun with friends and families. Japanese men put business in order and rarely mix business with pleasure. They are particular with mistakes and perfectionalism. But they have emotional side that when you get to know more of them you’d know the secrets behind their hard personalities. Here’s great suggestions if you’re very interested in dating with Japanese guys:
a.) They are not direct speakers, they express their feelings (hate, love, like, dislike) through actions, gestures and hints. Mostly they give you some little things like soap, fruits, sweets and often times smile or wanting to talk to you more in constant bases. Don’t mistake that with friendship as well. If you ask them, they would go out with you. If they want you for friendship they would just be around you and not go out with you.
b.) Don’t confront them by phone or face to face because they are scared cats, you can ask them through letters, emails and texts and if you think that he’s telling you signs or words of liking then that’s a big starting point.
c.) Japanese guys wants their women to be herself, don’t be awkward to be with. Be yourself, you can talk about anything but not confrontation, not gossiping. They like funny, adventurous, independent and enthusiastic girl. They are expected to be hard inside their works and having a funny girl that can bring them joy is worth more than ten thousand yens an hour. You get the point? Japanese men often go to gentlemen pubs and pay huge money just to have fun talks. If you are fun to talk to, it’s like a real treat for them.
Continue reading to this link: >>Please read How to date Japanese Guy Part 2