How to be Sexy 101

Being sexy is something that cannot be mastered over night; it takes practice and determination to get it to the ultimate perfection. For some being sexy is a natural thing, but for those women that are still have no clue why men will not look or give them that second glance this is for you:

·         CONFIDENCE-Men love women that have confidence in themselves, showing that they are determined; self reliant and a bit forward is a major plus. Tell yourself that you CAN do something rather than I WILL TRY, this will boost your confidence. You can also stand in front of the mirror and tell yourself the positive things about your personality. This may feel a bit funny, but give it a shot.

·         POSTURE-Walking with the shoulders back rather than slouching is great for your back, but also great for your sexiness. This way of walking gives the idea that you are confident and proud. This will take some work, since those that have tried walking this way think that walking with your boobs out will make guys notice them, but trust me on this it only makes you look funny.

·         EYE CONTACT-When someone is speaking to you it is polite to look at the person in the eye, this shows that you are in tuned to what they are saying and that  you are showing interest. Showing eye contact when walking past a cute guy, or talking to a stranger is something of a magnet to the opposite sex. Just make sure that you do not stare too long, make it a passing glance with a hint of a smile.

Your sexiness is on its way.

·         ATTIRE-Your clothes is the topping, so you must take good care in finding what suits you and what is OUT. Let’s start with underwear: Pink, black or white, lacy or a bit of Victoria’s Secret will seal the deal when being sexy. Even though no one will see your undergarments just wearing these types will make feel sexy. Pants: Depending on the occasion it is best to wear pants that are snug but not tight. Also make sure that the pants are not “high waters”. Shirts: Do not wear shirts that show your breasts, or even your stomach. You are only giving the impression that  you are in fact easy. Shoes: high heels are the sexiest shoes to wear, but for those that hate to wear them, try short heels or even sandals. But if you are dealing with snowy weather, then who cares what you are wearing.

With all these elements combined you are now sexy. One thing to keep in the back of your mind is that men do not like overconfident women. This makes them look snobby and conceded; make sure you know where that line is.