How Tell Your Date You Have a Boyfriend

November 30, 2012 by Kinda  
Published in Dating

Don’t Kiss and tell your date that you are dating someone else. If you do divulge this privy information, that means that you have made a situation yet to develop into one of complications.

What he knows could ruin your relationship with your guy if you kiss and tell him that you are dating someone else. He does not need to know your life history and especially if you are presently seeing another person. If he asks if you are seeing someone else and the both of you are out on a date, he may be questioning your loyalty for  the relationship. Some guys like to play detective and practically tries to figure their dates out by asking questions. You do not have to answer the questions. You need to be able to change the subject tactfully and get off of the subject right away if you are dating someone else.

Do not try to turn the tables on him by backfiring the question back at him. The two of you are out on a date and the purpose of the date to have fun and to enjoy each other company. While on a date, the guy should not delve into your personal business because the two of you are not yet a couple. If the relationship develops into a viable relationship, then it would be understood that the questions would be more welcomed.

On the other spectrum, you should not ask the date if he is seeing someone else.  The mention of another person only puts a strain on the evening even if that person is not present.  He may think that the date is not going well and that you wish that he had taken out his other girl instead of you. There is no way of knowing his attitude about including the mention of someone name during the date so the optimal thing to do is to not mention anyone else while on your date.

However, if he volunteers the information about another girl, then that means that he is not interested in you and is probably looking forward to seeing his other girl. There is no reason for him to mention another girl while out on a date with you and there is no reason for you to mention another guy. The other person added to the date even just vocally could put a strain on the date. Suppose you  are thinking about breaking up with the other person and then you blurt this out to your date. More often than not, he may think that you either need an attitude adjustment or that if a relationship begin with him that it would go the same route.

Don’t Kiss and tell your date that you are dating someone else. If you do divulge this privy information, that means that you have made a situation yet to develop into one of complications. Keep the dating scene simple by dating only one guy at a time. If you are dating more than one guy, you do not have to give out any information about the other guy who you are dating. How would he know unless you tell him about someone else you are dating and you should definitely keep news of another guy under wraps. Give the guy a chance by only going out with him with topics centered accordingly  and simplify your dating by shushing about any other relationship that you may have been involved in. You may be brewing up the wrong relationship and should give your new guy a chance.

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