How Can an Introvert Win a Man of Her Dreams?

At 37-years Fatima is a gorgeous well educated working lady. Because of the conservative Muslim background, she could not break the infamous strict Islamic restrictions but simply went by the wind and followed them. All she did was to concentrate on her studies and made sure that she excelled in her studies which resultantly enabled her to get a well paying job

The fact the Fatima did not get the chance frequent night clubs to engage in dances and mingle with the opposite sex ,it even made her more isolated from the world of interaction.

By nature, Fatima is not much of a hyper person. To make matters worse, she is so much of an introvert and reserved.

Here now come the problem; Fatima is now so lonely that so can not even enjoy the hefty salary that she earns at the end of the month. The fact of the matter is that Fatima is not alone. There are so many Introverts out there who are suffering from the loneliness syndrome But it is not too lat for all the like of Fatima out there to break out of their solitary confinements and meet people who will make a difference in their lives It is time to settle down. Your biological clock it ticking. Those so called hyper wild girls out there are making the most out of their openness and outgoing personalities. A good majority of them are getting married so to speak and are leading very happy lives so to mention. Your attractiveness may not be enough to put you in the spotlight as an eligible suitor for marriage.

A few tips aforementioned should be able to help you sort yourself out of the mess that you are currently entangled in 1-Begin taking part in social gatherings knowing that life is full of contradictions. There are times when, women are encouraged to put their studies first and as such, end up sacrificing other interests. After school, you need to break out of routine. My advice to you is to start going out more often. Go to public places like cell meetings, church, wedding meetings and engagement parties. Any activities that encourage many people’s participation be part of it. If you do not participate in any activities, very few males will take notice. You will be like the good dancer who danced in the dark. If group activities are not your thing, you can also try to get close to the male friends that you have built up over the years.

Hang out in good company

in public matters a lot and the people you associate with. Some men may think you are too reserved, or that maybe there is someone else in your life. Do not become like those hyper girls because that is not who you are. Be patient, everyone has someone and you will get the right person for you. Being too absorbed in one’s self is a little extreme. Start hanging out in good company. You will certainly find your perfect match.

By realizing your condition, you are halfway to solving your problem. Just open up a bit, go out with friends or relatives. Stop being too conscious of yourself. Remember, looks are not everything.

Don’t resort to being wild

Yes; some wild and hyper girls tend to walk down the aisle faster than the more reserved ones. But that would be a generalization and a myth. Not all wild and hyper girls are off the shelf and not all reserved girls are still on the shelf. I believe it is all based on luck, destiny and timing. Being on the wild side could win you a serious husband or it could be a turn-off, and the reverse is true. It all depends on who you are and what kind of people are in your circles. Get out there more often and meet more people and be yourself. If that fails, look out for reserved people like you, do not resort to being wild and out of control.
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Take your time

being an introvert means you are self-dependant. Take your time finding a faithful man to settle with. Do not just rush for any because you think you have been missing out.

Check your behavior

There is a saying a man is not afraid of the future until he gets a wife; and a woman is afraid of the future until she gets a husband. To be single at 37 is so frustrating for a woman; however, it should not force you to rush into an unplanned marriage or relationship. There is someone out there for everyone, perhaps you have not yet come across yours. Perhaps you raised your standard of ideal man so high which no man can match.

Re-evaluate yourself, from the way you interact with people and your own behavior. You seem to dwell too much on the fact that you are reserved. You might not be the most attractive girl in your locality who is capable of making every man desire you, but avoid being too hard on yourself.
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