Guys and Their Behavior
October 26, 2009 by sunshine926
Published in Dating
Guys.
While ignoring guys when they treat us with disrespect or take us for granted might seem like something outlandish or mean for the majority of women, it is one of the best strategies for dealing with guys who are players, liars or plain and simply jerks. I am not an expert in relationships, but I am fascinated by psychology and the human mind.
Recently, I met a guy who seemed really nice at first. It didn’t take very long before he made his intentions clear. But, I decided to play dumb and put him to the test. “Why don’t we go out and have a few drinks?” he said. I wonder why not coffee instead. I am sorry, but I am not much of a drinker I said, even though I do enjoy a glass of red wine once in a while if the occasion sparks me. However, I just met this guy and need to keep my guard really high.
For several weeks, we chatted on line. Although we had planned on meeting up last weekend, I had a change of heart. And since I never heard from him, I didn’t call him up either. And even if he would have called me, I wouldn’t have picked up his call. For a lot of women, this is mean and bitchy, but in reality it is not. I have discovered that the key to winning a guy’s heart is being able to tap his pain. A few hours ago, I received an instant message from him saying hello lost one. So I am the lost one huh? Does he actually think that I am going to pursue him like the rest of the weak-minded girls out there? No. And he can keep waiting for my reply. Now, does that make me a bitch?
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October 26th, 2009 at 11:34 am
No, it doesn’t, but I can’t help thinking maybe you ought to give Mr. Creepy another look. Could you be missing something?
October 26th, 2009 at 11:39 am
Never really had time for mind games, and I don’t think there is anything wrong with taking you time and really getting to know someone. Good write.
October 26th, 2009 at 11:41 am
yes i agree with ken bultman, enjoyed reading.
October 26th, 2009 at 12:26 pm
wow….I especially like when you said…..”I have discovered that the key to winning a guy’s heart is being able to tap his pain.”…..like I said earlier..I truly do not want to be on your bad side…very good write by the way!!
October 26th, 2009 at 1:30 pm
No, that doesn’t make you one. I think he’s just arrogant, trying to make an ego trip.
good write, you fully expressed your side.
October 26th, 2009 at 1:59 pm
Waiting for Girls and their behaviour.
October 26th, 2009 at 2:13 pm
Thanks for all your comments guys!
October 26th, 2009 at 2:28 pm
Good article marlene..Know what you want from a guy and dont settle for anything else..Tapping into a guys pain is great only if he is worth it.Otherwise that will be fired right back in your face..
October 26th, 2009 at 2:36 pm
Great, well written
October 26th, 2009 at 4:00 pm
Your instinct told you to be cautious, trust your instinct. If people cant deal straightforwardly with you they are not worth the effort. Good article.
October 27th, 2009 at 9:54 am
nice article. it doesn’t.
October 27th, 2009 at 4:53 pm
You are NOT a bitch! No Way. Good for you for knowing what you are looking for, need and want in a relationship. His loss!
October 29th, 2009 at 4:39 am
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