Eight Relationship Don’ts

In life we all strive to maintain a healthy relationship with our significant other. Through trial and error, some of us actually find someone to start thinking long-term with. Well ladies, here are eight relationship dont’s to make sure you keep your keeper.

1. Where Ya Been

   One of the fastest ways to make your guy run the other way is to bombard him with a million questions about where he has been or where he is at. You are both adults in an adult relationship, so there is no reason for you to make him check in constantly. What you are doing is showing him that you doubt his loyalty to you if you are not around to see it. No guy likes to feel like he can’t be trusted.

2. The Tag Along

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   When your guy tells you he needs a guys night out, he is not ditching you for his friends. Everyone needs their own space. A couple who is together 100% of the time often start to get on each other nerves. Give him a chance to miss you.

3. Below The Belt

   Every relationship goes through their ups and downs. However, never say something in th heat of the moment that you are going to regret later. Words are powerful, and sometimes you can’t take it back.

4. One of The Girls

   Many girls don’t enjoy football, so there is no reason why you expect your guy to enjoy lifetime. Don’t take it to heart when your guy would rather go sling car parts in the garage then to watch a tear jerker.

5. Call me Inspector

   If your name is not on it, hands off. Remember, nobody looks for something unless they are trying to find something.

6. Gossip

   Don’t always believe what you hear. If you are in a healthy relationship, you should be able to go talk to your spouse about anything you might suspect to be true. We all know what happens to the person who is left to assume.

7. Transformer

   Never start doing anything in a relationship that you have no intentions to continue to do. Be yourself at all times.

8. The Bottom Line

   Don’t give you significant other choices to choose from. Open the lines of communications and make an informed decision together on whatever the situation.