Differing Viewpoints on Sex
Men and women, their differing viewpoints on sex, and a discussion on cheating.
I just realized that the order that these articles are published here aren’t the order that I usually submit them. That being the case, I’ll meander off on a different topic today, and come back chronologically with the next article.
My thoughts today are about men and women’s’ differing viewpoints on sex. After all I’m a guy, and that’s what we think about 75% of the time right? It is true that sex is on our brains often. But while a woman’s orgasm is quite satisfying that can leave her happy for some time to come (unless she’s a nympho, in which case feel free to…well actually I’m not going to fill that in), a man’s orgasm is just a tease that leaves us wanting more. It’s the difference between a Ferarri and a Honda, Lady Gaga and Kesha. Sorry for all you music fans out there who adore Kesha but come one, she looks like a goth and an albino made love and then dropped the resulting baby on the head when it was born.
Maybe that’s why the stereotypical portrayals of men and women in relation to sex occur. Men are focused more on the physical aspect of it, while women need an emotional aspect of it. It makes sense if an orgasm is so much more fulfilling to a woman than a man. The equivalent is a man caring so much more about a car because the car brings so much more satisfaction to a man than a women in general. As an off-note, I find it really cute when I point out or talk about a really nice car that I like, and a female will chime in ‘oh cool, what color is it?’
And following the same train of thought, if women are so much more emotional than men when it comes to sex, while men are more physical about it, it makes sense why guys tend to cheat sometime. Now I want to clarify two things. One, I’m making gross generalizations here. Two, I do not condone cheating at all, I’m simply stating a reason for it.
With that being said, is it OK for a man to cheat? Of course not. A big part about being in a relationship is making sure the other person is content with that relationship while you find some way to be happy while the other person is happy. This is especially true for men. As my dad says, “Rule number one for marriage: your wife is always right. Rule number two: when your wife is wrong, refer to rule number 1.” So men, remember, entering in a relationship, you’re forfeiting your right to chase after every skirt that walks that way. Find some way to be content with just your wife. But women, and feel free if you disagree here, but I’m speaking on behalf of men out here, make it easier for your men to be content with just having sex with you. Be more sexually adventurous. Try a different position, or get freaky somewhere crazy. Whether for you that’s reverse cowboy in the back of your car, or a wheelbarrow through the aisle of your local supermarket, explore a little bit. You never know, you might even love it.
Of course there’s so much more to talk about sex, and I’ll be visiting the topic frequently. Happy sexing!
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