Curbing Your Insecurities

Ladies, we all have had moments where we feel a bit insecure when we start dating a new guy and we come across one of his past lovers, haven’t we?  Okay, maybe I’m the only one willing to admit it today, huh?  I say today because just yesterday I would have said that I wasn’t the insecure type.  And mind you, today I’m only admitting to just a hint. 

Now for those of us who have more than a hint or who live in a constant state of insecurity, I say get some professional help.  But for us who only experience a fleeting moment of insecurity, I say, keep reading.  Ladies let’s face it, our new mate’s life didn’t begin when they laid eyes on us, did it?  We do know that they had past relationships, past encounters and past interests, right?  So why do we get that little sick feeling in the pit of our stomaches?  Oh, so I’m the only one?  Oh, okay, there’s two of us willing to admit it, that’s cool.  I thought I was talking to myself there for a minute.  Whewwwww. 

Like I was saying, why do we get that little sick feeling in the pit of our stomaches when the past meets the present?  Hey, do me a favor, re-read that last question.  I called us the present, didn’t I?  Do you get it?  We are their presents, gifts or perhaps you’re a curse, I don’t know.  Note to you and myself – always act like a present, therefore we don’t have to worry about his past.  And that’s just mi3centsworth.