Asian Women; Why Do Western Men Love Us?
I asked myself and some of my friends why many foreign men search for the love of their life in Asian cultures and countries that are so different from their own? I also wondered when it was that Western men first developed their attraction for Asian women here in the Philippines.
In searching for an answer to my question I decided to ask some older but still lovely Asian women I know here in the Philippines. They say it started around 1950, after the Japanese invaded the Philippines and the Americans defeated them and rescued the Filipino people. It was difficult to communicate in those days because they only had pen and paper to learn about each other and express their hopes and dreams. Many of the Asian women of that day had to have their correspondences translated into their own language. Some of the ladies told me how it often took weeks or months before they received a reply to their letters and that receiving one was such a magical experience. This practice was called writing to your ‘pen pal’ or a possible ‘Mail Order Bride’.
Interesting, but why do they love the Asian women here from the Philippines? Why do they want to be loved by us? Are our women really as special as these men think we are?
I began to think about Filipinos that I know who work in foreign lands all over the world. More and more foreigners have been exposed to how dedicated and loving my people can be because of this.
That reminded me of a touching movie I saw titled “CARE GIVER”. It’s the story of a typical Asian woman from the Philippines who’s working in a foreign land far from her family and taking very good care of someone she never knew before. She had to sign a contract of employment promising to stay with her foreign employer a minimum of 3 years before she could even go home to see her children for a week. This Asian woman was very poor and sent most of the little money she earned back to her family in the Philippines so they could continue to barely survive. She did her job with her whole heart and loved the person she was caring for as if it was her own blood relative. She never complained and always met each day with gratitude and an eagerness to be of help to someone else.
I started to see how men around the world would come to appreciate the way our sincere, unselfish and loving Asian women here give so much of themselves and their hearts. Filipino women not only do their job out of obligation but because they truly love to be of service to other people. They are also known for being extremely family oriented. Asian women put their husband and their family first in all things and will gladly sacrifice to see to their comfort and happiness.
I’m not suggesting that Asian women are the only women in the world to have such valuable characteristics. But as an Asian Woman myself, I can tell you we are taught, raised and encouraged to have a special respect and appreciation for our men.
So what are you waiting for? I highly recommend you come to the Philippines and meet some lovely Asian women for yourself and find the one who’ll love you completely, and with her whole heart for the rest of your life.