10 Ways to Tell If He’s Cheating on You

1. When his phone rings does he get up and leave the room to answer it? His excuse is probably something like he didn’t want to disturb what you were doing. Does he also leave the room to make calls? If you walk near him while he’s on the phone, does he hide his face?
2. Does he delete text messages as soon as he sends or receives them? Does he delete his recent calls list both incoming and outgoing? Does he say he does this to free up space on his phone? It is strange how your phone works just fine without you deleting everything all the time.
3. Has he started taking extra care of his appearance? Does he shave more often? Does he use a new more expensive brand of shower gel, aftershave etc? Does he go to get his hair cut without you having to drag him there? Has he started dressing differently?
4. Does he like to spend more time on his own lately? Has he rearranged his hobbies or interests so that he gets to be away from you more than he used to? When you ask him about his hobbies or interests does he tell you cheerfully or does he just say that it’s good and refuses to discuss it further?
5. Does he spend a lot more time outside the home with his friends? Does he spend time with mutual friends or prefer the company of his personal friends, leaving you on your own? Have your mutual friends commented that they rarely see him lately?
6. When you try to talk to him does he seem unwilling to talk to you? Even about everyday things? Does he get irritable with you for no reason? Does he accuse you of trying to run his life or needing to know everything about what he does even though you only asked an innocent question?
7. Does he pick fights more than usual? Does he put you down more and point out your faults? Does he compare you to other women saying things like you should take more care of yourself like she does?
8. Have you noticed that his credit card bills seem higher than usual especially if he has been away on a business trip? Is he making bigger than normal withdrawals from your joint bank account? Does he always seem to be short of money lately? Does he make you pay for things more than he used to?
9. Have you noticed that some of your friends have been avoiding you? Or that they change the subject if you mention his name? 
10. Do you feel that there is something wrong? Does your intuition tell you to ask questions but you are afraid to? 

Before you make any accusations you need to remember that any of the questions above could have innocent answers so get your facts straight first. Ask a trusted friend for advice, talk to family and don’t forget to talk to your partner as well!