10 Tell-tale Signs That He’s Interested
You’ve been staring at him from behind locker doors and across the cafeteria for the last ten years. He winks at you and his muscles are a killer. But is he really into you? Instead of daydreaming about your wedding and kids, pay attention to his body language and comments and find out if he’s for real.
1. Does he ignore you when his friends are around?
If he does, it’s a sign that he may like you but he doesn’t want to make a fool of himself in front of his mates. Cute, isn’t he? Of course, if he teats you nicely whether you’re alone together or with friends, that’s even better because he’s not bothered by what people think of him!! But remember guys are shy creatures at heart – it might take a while for him to warm up around you.
2. In a group of friends, does he come over to you when he spots you?
This is always a good thing. Boys who want you also want to be close you you, so if he comes over, says hi, and touches your arm or hand, he might as well have a neon sign over his head saying “I want you! Yes that’s right, you!”.
3. Does he mirror your body language?
Have you ever noticed that he tilts his head to one side when you do? Or crosses his arms when you do? We tend to mirror people’s body language when we are paying attention to them and like them – so if he does this, it’s likely he’s interested.
4. Does he pay you compliments?
This one’s obvious. If he’s showering you with flattery then he’s after you. Of course, only if he means it. But a real guy pays sincere compliments to his girl only if he really likes her. He knows good manners are a guy’s best friend!
5. Does he always make sure he’s looking his best when he knows you’re going to see him?
If you can smell his aftershave from a mile away and see he’s brushed his pearly whites like he’s attempting a world record or something, then this an intersting sign. Why is he so meticulous about his appearance? Hmm…
6. Does he laugh at your dad’s corny jokes and help him clean the garage?
Whocko! Finally, a guy who understands those nonsensical jokes! If he gets on with your dad like they’ve known each other for years, then he might be trying to gain some trust from your family. This is a good thing – there’s nothing like your dad thinking your boy is totally awesome!
7. Does he stick up for you when people make fun of you?
If he defends you when other people call you nasty names, then he wants to protect you. Guys don’t do this for fun. If he laughs out loud, then ditch him.
8. Is he constantly asking if you have a boyfriend, where you hang out, and what you like doing?
He wants information – he wants to find out about you. If you’re interested in him too, then be nice and tell him about yourself when he asks, it’s the only way to get him to chill out. And if he likes you, then whether you have a boyfriend already is a priority.
9. Does he flirt with other girls?
Silly question. Take notice of how he acts around other girls – if he’s flirty with everyone then he may not be interested in you exclusively, but if he isn’t particularly flirty with others and gives you “special treatment” then he obviously fancies you!
10. Lastly, does he tell you he likes you?
This is the most important sign. A guy who tells you he likes you probably does. Guys do not go round confessing their love to girls for the hell of it – it is a tough job!
Remember that guys are weird sometimes, but if yours fits these criteria, then you obviously have caught a gem. Don’t let the good ones go! Treat him well so you can have many years of Happymeal-gobbling happiness. Spread the love!