Affairs and Forgiveness

September 2, 2008 by Nicky2103  
Published in Relationships

Can people really forgive affairs?

I have been with my partner for 6 years now and although we are blissfully happy things weren’t always so perfect……

We met when we were teenagers and we just fell in love, you know the feeling, butterflies in your tummy smiling like you have slept with a coat hanger in your mouth every time you looked at each other, the world was our oyster and we had no worries in the world.

We would go on romantic weekend breaks, romantic meals with wine and flowers and he would treat me like the most precious thing in the whole world but as everybody knows things don’t stay perfect forever……

We had been together for 3 years and he planned to go away for the weekend for his mates 21st birthday, I knew I was going to miss him like crazy but it was only 2 nights and he promised he would phone me just so he could hear my voice. Before i knew it he was home with a big cuddly toy that he had brought back for me and life continued on as normal.

Then the year after they were planning to go again this time I wasn’t so bothered I knew I wasn’t going to miss him and it was actually nice to have a break away from each other for a change, You see things weren’t so perfect any more, we would argue over silly things such as who was taking the rubbish out and what we was watching on the TV but when he finally returned I knew things were different there was no oversized cuddly toy and he was even more distant than before he left.

As the time passed it was coming up to Christmas, things were all doom and gloom and I was dreading the festive season where everybody is supposed to be happy, but we wasn’t things were falling apart and fast.

We finally called it a day and went our separate ways, but even though things had been so bad I missed him like crazy and it turned out he felt the same we decided to give our relationship another try. Things still weren’t perfect but we had to work on getting that special spark back that we once had but the longer we were together the more a realised it just wasn’t coming back.

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