5 Signs You Should Dump Your Boyfriend

October 8, 2010 by Alaina Ellington  
Published in Relationships

Wondering if your relationship is meant to be, or if you should drop the zero and find yourself a hero?

When feelings are involved decisions can be difficult to make. It can be hard to decide whether or not the relationship you are in is meant to be, or if your just comfortable.

So your wondering if you should dump him, huh. Well here are some good pointers that lead to yes…


If you are living together, do you find yourself being the only one that does anything? Is he lazy? If he is lazy, does nothing to help, get rid of him. He’s a zero, and he will never help you. He knows your willing to do whatever needs to be done, and if your going to do it why would he?

Questionable Behavior

Does he get random text messages, calls, FB messages from random women? The key word there is random. If they are from his friends that is a different story. If he’s being secretive and keeping the messages from you, not that you should get into his business all the time, he’s doing something he is not supposed to be doing. He is getting and giving attention to and from another woman…which leaves you on the back burner. Get rid of that jerkoff!


Maybe the issue is obsession. Maybe it’s you who has no personal space. Is he following you around like a puppy dog? Big RED flag…not healthy. He doesn’t trust you, and/or doesn’t want to be without you EVER! That big red flag that’s flying high spells loser, kick him to the curb!


Sacrifice….who does the most? Who is sacrificing the most of themselves to make the relationship work. While in a relationship there will be compromise, but you should never have to change yourself for anyone. You should be loved for who you are, and if your not you need to get out.

Be True to Yourself

Do you like yourself? Does he bring out the best in you? Are you able to be true to yourself, act like yourself, and not be fake? If the answer is no, well you know, get out of the relationship. You need to find someone who will accept you for you.

The most important aspect of any relationship is the way you feel about yourself. If you are being cared for, you will in turn care for your partner. If you feel loved, you will want to give love. Relationships are 100%/100% each person has to give it their all. When things become unbalanced and unfair, it is time to shut the door and move on. You can also try making some changes, but chances are the changes are not going to come easy. They are going to take a lot of hard work and dedication. If you are going to commit yourself to change you will have to fully commit yourself, and stick with it. I know that if you dedicate yourself and push through you can make it out happier in the end.

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9 Responses to “5 Signs You Should Dump Your Boyfriend”
  1. Noeal V Says:

    Nice Share.

  2. AshleyApathy Says:


  3. Ethics0006 Says:

    Nice Post

  4. Fassy Says:

    nice post dear thanx :)

  5. GodsGrace Says:

    Good Post

  6. My World Says:

    Nice Post……

    Thanks for share.

  7. clandestinef Says:

    I love the line “BE TRUE TO YOURSELF”. Great post.

  8. mykseverino88 Says:

    interesting post

  9. Jerry Bradford aka Jerry Atrixx Says:

    A hero aint nothing but a sandwich unless it’s from quiznos then its a delicious toasted sandwich

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