10 Things Girls Look for in a Guy

May 6, 2009 by taterSC042108  
Published in Relationships

There are some things that are very important to a girl. These ten things are the most important that a guy should have, in order to win his girl over.

1. Courageable

Girls hate it when a guy doesn’t have the guts to ask her out herself, and when he gets his friend to do it for him, it’s a major turn off.

2. Well-Groomed

We don’t expect you to be a super model, but at least make sure your hair is brushed, as well as your teeth. We notice the smallest things, so make sure you cover it all.

3. Sense of Humor

When you talk to us, we expect you to know how to make us laugh, but don’t turn dorky on us. An occasional laugh every now and then is good for the first few dates. Don’t start cracking jokes left and right until maybe the fourth date.


Nice compliments and small kind gestures are what really gets us looking forward to a second date. The more compassion the better. You can never be too nice.

5. Honesty

Be true about who you are. Whether you know or not, we can tell when you are putting on a show. Plus the way you act on the first date, we will expect you to act that way forever.

6. Protective

Even on the first date it’s important to know that you expect us to focus only on you. But keep in mind that just because another guy says hey, doesn’t mean that you can jump all over him. There has to be boundaries, according to what date it is.

7. Mannerable

Every girl wants a guy that knows his manners. I’m not talking, yes ma’am, no ma’am. A thank you, and a your welcome, is all we’re asking for.

8. Intellegence

No not Albert Einstein, just let us know that you know what you’re talking about.

9. Maturity

Girls want a guy that will pick around, but have a serious side too. We want a guy, not a 6 year old.

10. Loyal

When we go out with a guy, we want to know that they are focused on us. We really do not want to see you turn around and talk to another girl. Whether its the first date, or the millionth, we get jealous….easily.

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7 Responses to “10 Things Girls Look for in a Guy”
  1. Joie Schmidt Says:

    Very nice article*



    -Liane Schmidt.

  2. Izee Says:

    When you have felling to your best friend

  3. Dilllonc56 Says:

    this was very helpful,this had things i didnt even know..thanks.
    -Dillon Campbell-

  4. Mr. Peenor Says:

    Good tips!

  5. Audrey Salindong Says:

    Wow, very accurate!

  6. shaun Says:

    all these things i know,is just that its hard to keep just that one girl,when you have more girls wanting you,so its easier to cheat when the girls ”are pretty much throwing” themselves at me.What do I have to do.???


  7. indigo Says:

    Also, charisma plays a very big role. We do like sensitive guys, but not sensitive to the point that they make a huge show out of moping around. Guys with confidence and strong personality are a very big turn on. (:

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