10 Signs You Should Dump Your Boyfriend

November 6, 2010 by rockstar627
Published in Relationships

If two people are truly in love with each other, when do we say enough is enough? Here are the 10 signs to know if it it is the time to move on and say goodbye to your beloved.

1. No sparks. Have you lost the sparks? sparks are very important as it gives spice to a relationship. It is important that you always feel it every time you cuddle, kiss and most importantly make love.

2. You caught him lying to you and don’t trust him anymore. Trust is very important in a relationship. if you caught your partner lying to you it changes everything and our tendency is not to trust him anymore. Talk about “if only words were left unsaid” Trust is a big issue in a relationship, a relationship is like a sensitive glass, if we break it no amount of glue can make it look the same again, but if you love and commitment to put it together can save it. So the question now is, how much commitment are you willing to put in for him?

3. Doing things for him feels like an obligation. When we do something for our partner it should be because we ” love to do it” not because “we have to”. If you feel like every thing you do for him is an obligation then there is a problem.

4. You don’t miss him, you enjoy more if he is not around. The point of having a boyfriend is companionship same as marriage. Boyfriend- girlfriend relationship is actually a testing ground for marriage. So if you don’t enjoy his company or you enjoy more without him then it’s definitely a big problem and you might have to think things over.

5. You don’t feel loved, cared for and wanted. The most fulfilling feeling of being in a relationship is a feeling that someone is out there wants us, needs us and the most important thing love us. If you don’t get that feeling anymore, you deserve someone who feels that way towards you.

6. You don’t have sex anymore.

7. You don’t feel excited to see him.

8. You don’t see a future with him. Its important to see a future with your partner. As we are not getting any younger sooner or later we need someone to settle down with if you are in a relationship, it is important to be with someone worth your time.

9. You cry and feel sad more than laugh and smile. The true test of a relationship is ” do you smile and laugh more often than cry and miserable?” if the answer to this is yes you still have a reason to stay and make it work but if the answer is no then its time to really think things over.