The Professional Woman vs. The Blue Collar Man
You may be setting your standards too high.
The man of your dream may have passed you by, but may not make a 5-figure a month salary. Maybe he doesn’t drive a Mercedes Benz, a Jaguar or Porshe, but he is ambitious, loving, loyal, trustworthy and a responsible guy. So you are a professional woman who makes more money, drive a Benz or sporty luxury car, etc. and live in a ritzy neighborhood, but still you have no one to share it with.
Sometimes we let possessions and money dictate our life, but even rich people aren’t always happy. You should first look at the heart of a person and how well they treat you and if you are a compatible match. Second; it is very important to communicate with your prospective other to learn as much as possible before making a commitment. Take your time getting to know the person you’ve met, he just may be the one God intended you have in your life.
If you are someone who just want a companion occasionally, then be honest and say so up front. It is essential to any relationship to be honest as you would want him to be. Men will do most anything for the woman he adores, but if he want more in the relationship you may want to avoid hurting him by not leading him to think you want more. However, if you find him attractive, ambitious, attentive, caring, loving and loyal- you should keep him.
Many times we lose out on the right person because we set our standards too high. It’s nothing wrong with wanting someone that is equal or more for ourselves, but it’s just not always possible that someone else is as fortunate. As long as that person respects you, loves you and love theirself; you should consider that like as if you struck gold. The most important thing to remember is LOVE conquers all.