He Won’t Get a Job!

Life is hard enough without added stress. A relationship is like a job, it takes work, planning, patience, time, love and room to grow. If you are in a bad relationship then you should be aware of one simple fact. This is a fact that remains in every bad relationship. Plain and simply….you are the last to know!!!

Don’t be shocked, it can happen to anyone. No one wants to admit their relationship is based on doom, but when the facts are there no one can dispute it. The first thing you need to know is why is he a bad risk. I will deal with one major issue right now. He won’t work.

What the hell has this world come to when women are supporting men like they are our children. When you have a child you expect to pick up their stuff, do their laundry, cook and clean. What about a grown man. I am sick and tired of men sitting on their buts denting my Ashley couch and living off my hard work and stretched income. You have enough to do raising kids on your own, house, car, work and what is this relax. I had to look up that word, I forgot what it meant.

You come home and all you want is peace and quiet, and what do you get? He wants to talk about his day. What happened to him and his feelings. So now the roles are reversed. You are the bread winner and he is now the domestic. He does not want to tend to the kids, but he will not get a job. He does not work outside the home. So now you have a choice. The kids love him, but he will not cook or wash, at the very least do half the work it takes to run a house. Well here is the shocker ladies…..you are in a bad relationship and you need to move on. Don’t try to work it out because you will be doing it by yourself. If he is happy and content with letting you work all day and clean all night then what do you need him for in the first place? Cut your ties, don’t look back and move him out so you can move on!

It will not be easy at first, but you must. One of two things will happen, he will either realize what a wonderful woman you are, come back and really be the man you need or he will stay away and you will be a better woman for it. Trust me I know!