Women Who Behave Badly
November 7, 2009 by cutedrishti8
Published in Issues
Intrinsic to sisterhood is self-love, self-esteem.
Sisterhood! It’s such an overloaded word for women. No two of us define it moderately the same way. There has always been a particular oratory regarding women as sisters, but for some of us, the truth doesn’t always measure up. Our combined struggles against class and gender barriers are ties that hypothetically bind; the word sister itself has become synonymous with woman. However women from every socioeconomic grouping still state that the hunt for true sisterhood is at times clouded with confusion, if not straight-up pain. Sometimes, women’s relations with one another have often been loaded with tension. Fact is that, sometimes we are our own worst enemy.
Sociologists draw attention that each of our lives leaves an impression on our collective sisterhood; how we take care of one another has a ripple effect that extends far beyond the women directly affected. Perhaps you don’t have a tattoo of boxing gloves, but ask yourself: Have you ever looked intently another woman up and down? Have you ever make fun or laughed on another woman behind her back? Spilled her confidential things? Have you ever flirted with another woman’s husband? Have you ever had an unspoken thought, even for a split second, wishing failure on another woman at the job? Be honest!
The truth is, to varying degrees, most of us are responsible of being less than sisterly at some point in our lives.
As women we must have the same opinion that our struggle to love ourselves is at the bottom line of our issues with one another. At the core of being able to be a sister, of being someone who can be relied upon for unconditional love and support, is being able to love yourself. What I have realized thru different relationships with women from all walks of life is that “Intrinsic to sisterhood is self-love, self-esteem, and understanding and believe who you are.”
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November 7th, 2009 at 3:02 pm
Well as a man I think your ALL lovely
November 7th, 2009 at 3:13 pm
ha ha very nice animated pic
November 7th, 2009 at 3:22 pm
Great article and points you touch on regarding women and issues of self-love and self-esteem. never been guilty of making fun of other women nor looking at anyone up and down in a snooty way. However, in the city where I live in, most women do this all the time. I have just learned to ignore it. there are other more important things in life to worry about.
November 7th, 2009 at 3:34 pm
Sad truths spoken here. What makes us so competitive? Is it the search for a mate,so engrained in our DNA? I don’t have the answers, that’s for sure.
Sure makes you think.
November 7th, 2009 at 3:58 pm
I am sure I have felt jealousy inside toward other women in my lifetime but never to the point where I felt inadequate as a woman. Great topic and very well done article.
November 7th, 2009 at 4:45 pm
Very nice and some very sad truths here.
November 7th, 2009 at 4:46 pm
Great points you make here. Very thought provoking!
November 7th, 2009 at 5:15 pm
Interesting points, but I am a person first, I don’t see it as them and us. I try to treat all people the way I would like people to treat me.
November 7th, 2009 at 5:16 pm
Very interesting…
November 7th, 2009 at 6:47 pm
Wow tough stuff Whew!
November 7th, 2009 at 6:57 pm
Wonderful article!
November 7th, 2009 at 7:16 pm
We should treat others as we wish to be treated ourselves. I see what you are speaking at times and I let it be known just what I think of it.
November 7th, 2009 at 7:45 pm
Well presented with truth.TX
November 7th, 2009 at 8:40 pm
Well…. I’m a man and we have our issues as well. I get your point though. Nicely written and introspective. Revealing!
November 7th, 2009 at 10:11 pm
Interesting topic, good share.
November 7th, 2009 at 10:40 pm
I agree with, Ruby Hawk. We should treat others as we wish to be treated.
November 7th, 2009 at 11:00 pm
Many women in my place specialise in making fun of other women and talking badly about some behind the backs. They should read this.
November 7th, 2009 at 11:42 pm
I totally agree with your write-up, as experience has it women are a woman’s biggest enemy as they say.A very interesting article and eye-opener for women.
November 7th, 2009 at 11:47 pm
you have just revealed the truth…very nice, and where do you get such pics gajender?
November 8th, 2009 at 1:01 am
Sisterhood sounds a lot like brotherhood.
November 8th, 2009 at 1:19 am
made me laugh mann….great article
November 8th, 2009 at 4:44 am
Excellent. Very inspiring!!
November 8th, 2009 at 7:59 am
itz always wrong to respect a woman blindly thinking that she’s always true.. thanx for bringing out dat guts to write about such an uncommon and diffrent topic..i appreciate dat.
November 8th, 2009 at 8:52 am
nice post. some great thoughts.
November 8th, 2009 at 11:05 pm
Inspiring!
November 9th, 2009 at 2:18 am
very good article greatly enjoyable to read.
November 9th, 2009 at 1:13 pm
We human will never stop learning, man and women, both are always try to improve ourselves, after all we are only humans.
November 9th, 2009 at 7:51 pm
nice article!
November 10th, 2009 at 11:30 am
A woman should always respect herself, otherwise no one will.
November 15th, 2009 at 4:26 pm
I try always to judge a man or woman by the content of their character.
November 28th, 2009 at 3:20 pm
an excellent piece and you have expressed some good points.