Do I Look Like a Trick to You?
April 10, 2009 by princessodilia
Published in Lifestyle
“Once you become self-empowered, the Mirage of Love will fade and the Reality of Love will become your only tolerance.” ~Princess-O`dilia.
“Never bend the rule of “you” for another. In the end you’ll still have “you” to contend with.” ~Princess-O`dilia
“Do I Look Like a Trick to You?”
It’s too bad that you think it’s too much of me to ask
To be treated like a lady,
Instead of a trick.
Too often, I’ve had to beg for your time
Not just your internal intimacy
I thought I was your lady,
How is it that I became your trick?
In the beginning, I had more of you
Than maybe desired,
Then somehow it went away.
I guess you figured, “you got me now”
So what’s estate?
The streets see more of you than me
So how do you think you’ll keep me?
I’m a lady, not your trick!!!!
Too often, men take for granted the woman they “claim” to love. Our time becomes of less value the longer we seem to endure. Unfortunately, most women think this is just the way it is, so they choose to sell themselves short. If you would love yourself more by focusing on becoming self-empowered, you’d realize that’s not the way it should be. You’d allow yourself to experience the Reality of Love in your life and the Mirage of Love would fade. Don’t settle for less when you can have better. Your time is valuable and your body is of an infinite figure ($)!! Therefore, allow no one to make you their Trick. For that, you could just sell it for sure. You’re worth much more than that!!!
Keep this in mind:
“Once you become self-empowered the Mirage of Love will fade and the Reality of Love will become your tolerance.” ~Princess-O`dilia
“The resentment that comes with the sacrifice of ones personal commitment to Self for the satisfaction of someone else is far greater than the sacrifice that was made. Plus, in the end you won’t be respected, yet reminded of the stand you didn’t take.” ~Princess-O`dilia
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April 10th, 2009 at 5:25 am
THAT’S TELLING THEM!….
April 10th, 2009 at 8:11 am
So true! Too many women stay with men who are wrong for them but these women are more afraid of being alone than of the emotional abuse they suffer.
As I tell others, when you finally love yourself and are comfortable with having only yourself for company, others who see the value you place on yourself will start to come into your life. Like goes with Like. If you keep the worthless in your life, there will never be any room for the worthwhile.
April 10th, 2009 at 12:20 pm
look deeper child, she said. So I did and she said, tell me child of the wolf, now what do you really see? I answered, I see tha i do not like myself much either.
Mother then said, Child, often what we see in others is also a reflection of ourselves. I we do not like ourself, how can we expect others to do so as well.
Don’t know if this makes but it left an impression with me that has helped me throughout my life. Great article!
April 10th, 2009 at 12:23 pm
extremely well written article.This reminds me of when I was a child. I was raised by a Native American Medicine Woman who through great insight and inner wisdom, adopted me as her own.
I was not like the other children of the village and always felt i did not belong. After getting into a fight while on a nature walk, i was taken home to my mother who took me into her palor and told me to look into the mirrior.
April 11th, 2009 at 5:54 pm
Awesome writing! Great Points that you write about. I will pass this along to my daughters.
April 12th, 2009 at 12:53 am
This kinda sounds like a few of the poem combined about my ex-girlfriend. I should call her up and ask her did she think I was her trick. She told me after I asked her if she loved., “I’m not a bad person” My reply to that was I never said you were, you just have some, schrew up ways. It’s always good to hear a REAL womens point of view. I get so tired of hearing crap from women: talking aboutI want a real man. When he is standing in front of you, the question is…What are you going to do with him when you get him.
Great points, thanks
June 20th, 2009 at 2:00 am
I guess i have been selfish. I have treated a few women like tricks in my life time. My bad, I plan to treat the next lady in my life like a queen.