What Will You Do If You Have Unwanted Pregnancy?

There are lots of women who maybe under this situation right now; women that are in need of some advices, who are scared and confused what to do.  One point in my life, I had experienced it as well but I choose the rightful path than an easy way out.
Of course I would be hypocrite if I never thought of aborting the baby. My thoughts during that time were mostly about the future; what would my friends and family think and say. I just graduated college and on the way to getting jobs with no savings and totally dependent with my mom’s financial support. I got lucky coz my partner that time was very supportive and very willing to raise the kid.

My mom threw me out of the house. Some friends left me and some friends were worried I may borrow money from them.

I got my strength from the kid that I am carrying. I didn’t mind what people would say and tell me and never worried about future fears like financial needs to raise the kid, education, clothes and so on. Nine months after, I delivered a bouncing baby boy and everyone was so jealous of me because my kid was really cute and attractive. Four years later my son started his nursery class and those people who made fun of me are now asking help and borrowing money from us.

What happens today will never be the same tomorrow. While being lonely, abused, and sad today doesn’t make you will stay ike that forever. Life is like a series of up and down, it doesn’t just end in one milestone of your life but you have low times as well.

There are many ways to treat this kind of situation:

a.)    Accept everything and just move on, go on with your life and help will be coming along the way.

b.)    Just raise to God all your low times, people around you are just surprised about you getting pregnant but in a few weeks or so they’d learn to accept the fact too

c.)    If you are really scared, you can hide in a women’s center till you deliver the baby. When you see the baby you can either go out alone and support the baby while it’s in the center or have it adopted and pretend you never had a child.

d.)    Go to your parish priest to seek counsel, he could make you open your eyes more about the possibilities, good ones.

e.)    Have the baby aborted and choke on your conscience forever.