How Family Court or Child Custody Arrangements Effects Your Family

November 2, 2013 by igniter8503  
Published in Motherhood

This article is about trying to give people tips on dealing with family court or child custody arrangements. I talk about the stories and points of view I have after going through it for 10 years my self.

This is a very tough subject to talk about. But it is never told how it really effects family life.

You always get told what to do or not to do. Never really getting down to the dirt of the subject.

These points of view is told by me and no one else. My family has been dealing with family court for 10 years now.

Everyday is a battle just keeping up with all. I am not a lawyer or a judge. Just a person that has been through it.

Telling my story to see if it can help out people going through the same thing .

How Family court Effects Your Kids

While I get to see this in two points of view. One form my oldest daughter and the other from my youngest daughter.

It effects them differently. Let me tell you about my oldest daughter first. I actual raised my oldest three years by myself. We were always together. Even when she was small she had a lot of problems getting used to life to the way it was.

Many of nights I had to hold her when she cried wondering why she didn’t have a mom. Or why her mom wasn’t there for her.

She knew that our family was different from everyone else. Kids are smart at any age they figure stuff out really quickly.

I have had many questions about. Why her mom was not their? Even when she was young.

The Thing about when she was growing up I could actual see how it was effecting the whole time. It never goes away. You can tell it in their school work. Or everyday normal life. They are always walking around with a big weight on their shoulders.

Around 6 or 7 I start to see her start to change her mind on how she actually treat her real mom. She was starting to realize her mom only wanted to see her when it was convenient for her. My daughter started telling me why should I care to talk to my mom she don’t care to talk to me most of the time.

It is almost like a hate is growing inside of her and it only keeps getting bigger. The more her mom lets her down. The more hate grows. It is like a ticking time bomb. I have tried to help her in the subject by talking to her about it. Also I got counselor to talk to her too. But no one really could touch that wall that was building. It keeps growing and growing.

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