Will He Marry

Will he marry?  A man’s past will tell if he will marry.  First marriages are an easy indication that fresh out of high school or college, the likelihood of getting the man to the altar is easier.  But after the novelty of the marriage relationship has worn off, it will take research into his past to see if he will marry.  This is not to say that the guy will be marriage material.  But the first plan of the day is to see what has happened in his past that will assure that he is not about to march down the marriage aisle to holy matrimony.

Newly weds just graduating high school or college do not have much of a past when it comes to relationships except maybe prom dates and memories of school dances and weekend parties. However after being married and divorced and looking to get married a second time, a lot of history would have developed.  The second prospective bride and should researched to see if the guy is likely to remarry.  

Once a woman meet a man and the relationship looks like it is headed for marriage, the woman should find out about the man’s past.  Most men will not talk about past girl friends but thanks to social media such as FaceBook one can determine if the man has been dropping chickens without taking care of the hen for an example. 

Upon finding out that many years ago, the same man fathered a child and the still did not marry the mother would indicate that maybe the man beds women for fun and not for family.  Magic usually is not in relationships just for fun and the guy most likely will not marry.

If there was a divorce in the past then extra caution should be given that the man is not about to hear those wedding bells again.  A man who has been divorced has to deal with the issues that women have when a relationship breaks and no one is rushing to repeat that scenario.  

Research in a man’s past should be done to determine if he will ask for marriage is that what the woman is seeking.  Past incidences of the man having children and not marrying the mother indicates that he is not interested in fulfill his responsibility to marry the mother. 

  The new girlfriend sooner or later who finds herself in a relationship with a man that has an eventful past with previous girlfriends especially with children need to take extra precaution about getting serious.  Marriage is a serious situation and the man and woman got to be serious in light of how they handled relationships in the past that almost led to marriage.