Why is Divorce on The Rise

Why is divorce on the rise.

One of the most shocking points of our world today is divorce. Well it is not that shocking because we are now more than ever more selfish and self-centered. Face book, cellphones, television, video games, and many others thing that will lead your marriage in to the toilet. If you can not look at someone you married and talk to them communicate heart to heart then you are sure to come in to communication problems. There are many reasons why people are getting divorced.

1. Communication- if you do not talk you won’t like each other I promise. Something so easy can lead to something so ugly. That is true communicate with each other and life will be clear. Tip- face-book, twitter, cellphones, and any other electronic device will not help you communicate. This will only ruin your marriage. You have to have to have a one on one time. You need an intimacy that is so strong that you can fall back on each other. If you do not communicate but only through talk through electronics it will be your down fall. Soon you will be strangers living together.

2. Abuse- this is for the absolutely lowly person. Abuse destroys a person and their way they see a mate. When you abuse someone you are telling them that you are not my equal but lower than I am. Before you abuse anyone know that this will never be a real marriage. You just want to manipulate this person in to what ever dirty fantasy or thing you want them to be. That is not a real marriage. It is a pet relationship.

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   Cheating- when you marry you don’t say that don’t worry I will just cheat on you so don’t count on me being be around at night or picking up you calls to your spouse. If that is the case then you would not have gotten married in the first place. Well that is what people do to each other. There are many people out to steal or ruin your marriage and if you do not keep your eyes open then you will lose. That is life men are not dogs but they can easily be bought by a hot thing. Women want attention emotionally and physically. If that is all they ask for then give it to them if you can not don’t get married at all. Save each other the burden and save yourself from being a statistic.