When in Love, Playing The Role of Money
When choosing a partner always play a role in emotion, attraction and love, some criteria can also be wallet. And it’s not only issues of our time. According to historians, the idea of romantic love has become common in the Western world until recent history. Others said she did not know the culture in general.
People in the Middle Ages and early modern marriage entered into primarily to safeguard its successor, and thus the extension of the family.
“Love was considered a weakness or disease. Romantic love more in the higher circles appeared only in extramarital relations. Until about two hundred years ago was confined exclusively to the higher layers. There was also usually strictly separated from marriage,” he explains in his book Motivation is like the smell outside Ivo Toman and adds:
“Between rich and poor did not rule on its own individual marriage, but his family and relatives. In many traditional societies it is true now.”
The money then played a role in mate choice today and always mercenary and prospectors in the history of mankind is not anything unique. Perhaps the only difference is that before their children looking for parents, especially affluent counterparts, and now kids seize the initiative themselves.
Life is indeed full of mercenaries for money, but sometimes duty and boredom
The modern gold-digger seemed to have proliferated. You can see the side of famous men, rich, nouveau riche, but also their own bosses or employers. They are beautiful, confident, sometimes even intelligent, but often naive and calculating.
You might ask why they win money. The answers are obvious. Some too fascinated with (the man is rich and influential), and others just want to take advantage of their opportunity to live like a princess, another in the way of life simply to grow up and odmalinka they were seared into memory as you have to choose their partners.
“Power is the great aphrodisiac for women. It does not matter that he enjoys in his arms as fifty-five, stopadesátikilový, completely bald beauty. There are types of women who zamží in that moment seen a powerful male to protect their offspring. And when these two get together, it is a huge craze. The man has a feeling that the ‘guy’, who managed to pack a wife and a young often do not understand that the ‘twenty-five’ is packed, “says psychologist Alice Vondrova example.
In any case, living side by movable partner has its downsides. Wealthy men is very often not fully aware of the role played in their relationship with money and the respect and access. In essence, his mercenary conclude an agreement, which agrees that they will pay, but the woman is, in turn, must represent.