Unhappy Marriage: Reasons Why Marriage Fails
A recent poll shows an alarming rate of divorce among couples; why does this happen? Why do marriages fail? What are the reasons for a marriage failure? Reasosn why marriage fails include finanical problems, sexual problems, attitude problems, etc. Find out the reason for the failure in marriage and see how to resolve it here…
There are couples who celebrate 40th or 50th wedding anniversary and at the same many couples find it difficult to cope up with just one year of marriage; why do people find it difficult to live together?
A recent statistics by Pew Research Center and Time Magazine has found that since 1970s, there is an increase in people who think the institution of marriage is becoming obsolete. This result was based on interviews conducted among 2,691 adults. Is technological advancement and stress a main reason for an unhappy marriage that ultimately leads to divorce? Here are some reasons on why marriage fails.
1. Lack of trust or suspicion
In any relationship, trust plays a major role and this is very much important when it comes to marriage. Once you lose trust in your partner and start nagging him/her, you are getting closer to the end of the beautiful marriage relationship.
2. No or less communication
There are couples who have the habit of spending the money they earn without consulting their partners. Is it not a good habit if both the partners sit together and decide on how much they would spend on the household, groceries, dress materials, etc.? An effective communication is important in a happy marriage relationship.
3. Marrying without understanding the partner
Marriages will definitely not last long if the couples don’t understand each other. Love at first sight is very common, but before starting your marriage relationship make an attempt to know the partner. If both your interests don’t match, either don’t marry or at least make an attempt to accept others as how they are.
4. Interference of in-laws or parents
I myself have witnessed a beautiful and happy marriage being ruined by the ego clash of elders. Elders definitely know a lot about the world and are capable of giving healthy advices, but too much of anything is not good; this holds true for marriage relationships as well. Allowing in-laws or parents to take charge of your marriage life will end up ruining your happy marriage.
5. Financial instability
Love is important for a happy marriage life, but love will not last long if you don’t have adequate finances to meet at least the bare minimum needs. Food, home and shelter are the basic needs of every human being; there should sufficient finances to meet these needs. I do completely agree that there are some people whom you can never satisfy in their lifetime.