My Husband is Having an Affair
He just wants the sex.
Have you ever heard your friend say that her husband is having an affair and it’s all for the sex? Why does a man stray? Why would your husband or wife find love and comfort in someone else that’s not you? Is it really all about the sex? Perhaps it’s not only the sex that they are enjoying but all the things that come with a new relationship. Why can’t you be the “other woman” and make your husband or wife feel like they are having an affair when it’s you all along? This is how you go about it:
- You are now the “other woman” so dress like one. Go a little skimpy on top and show off your beautiful breasts. This is your chance to buy some gorgeous lingerie. Take your husband with you to your favorite lingerie store and model what he likes. Or ask him to go pick something out for you. This is what a lot of men do with the woman they are having an affair with–buy sexy lingerie!
- You also need to add a tad more make-up to your dinner dates with your “new man”. Focus more on your eyes. Buy some gold eye shadow and apply a little more mascara to make your eyes stand out more. Let your lipstick be coral and reddish tones instead of your usual pale pinks or clear gloss. You don’t want to look like a “woman of the night” but you do want to be his woman that night.
- Go a little short on your skirt or dress and wear high heels. Don’t go too short and don’t wear anything that isn’t comfortable but do go shorter. Also, be sure to add high heels to your outfit. Not just pumps, but high heels. They should be black since black goes with everything.
- Do something with your hair and nails. Many men that are having an affair like their “other woman” to look beautiful for them all the time and they are willing to pay for it. So now, your husband will be footing the bill to your hair and nail appointments. Remember that you need to look like a doll every time you go out with your husband.
- Talk dirty to him. Men like it when they are told what they need to do to satisfy a woman’s desire. Tell him exactly how you want to have sex and where you want him to touch you (refer to the Triond article with the title, “Touch Me Here!” for great ideas). Then in turn, ask him about his needs and be sure to please him in every way possible.
- Go crazy in bed. Give him a night that he’ll never forget. Try everything and anything new and possible that sounds like fun. Be very uninhibited. Think that if you don’t do this to him, some other woman might.
- Go out dancing. This is something that many men love doing but their wives don’t so they go out to a club on their own and end up dancing (not with you because you’re at home waiting for him to come home from a long meeting at “work”) all night long with some woman who later calls or texts him with a sweet “thank you for the wonderful dance”.
- Perform a lap dance for him. Remind him that he cannot touch you. He can only sit back, relax, and watch you perform for him. Remember to always keep the eye contact with him.
- Kiss him a lot! Kissing is something you two almost never do. Remind him what a sexy kisser you are. Don’t worry about getting lipstick all over him. “The other woman” does it all the time when she’s out with a married man and she doesn’t seem to care.
- Play with his hair while you are waiting for your dinner. Whisper in his ear and tell him how much you want him. Play around with him and have fun. The time you spend waiting for dinner will seem like a few short minutes if you use your time wisely.
- Tell him you love him and that you want him only for YOU! He will feel special and won’t dare stray. Why would he want to if he has the perfect woman right by his side.
Your man may not be the type to have an affair…or at least you don’t think so. The fact is that most married men have thought about how it would be and then decide not to because they have too much to lose if they get caught. But that’s not to say that the thought didn’t cross their mind. After a few nights out with you, he will never even think about looking elsewhere. But this is something that needs to be ongoing; you cannot start out a temptress and then turn into a nagging wife. That will be your biggest mistake. If you want to keep your man you need to keep up the sexy turn around.
Good luck and have fun tonight!