Men Who Fall in Love Outside Marriage

October 26, 2009 by barbara kasey smith  
Published in Marriage

A married man who fall in love outside of his marriage is more than likely bored with his spouse or “not” in love with her anymore or one of those who needs variety.

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What happens in a man’s mind to make him want love outside their marriage:

It’s sad to say but, “A married man who falls in love outside of his marriage is suffering from being bored with his spouse, and he wants variety or he’s “no” longer in love with his spouse. He takes his wife for grant and feels like she’ll be there regardless of what he does in their marriage. A marriage of this sort, is hanging by a very narrow thread, and in most cases, the wife is not aware of what is going on. A man going outside his marriage looking for contentment, excitement, intimate passion and love, has probably never been in “true love” in the first place. Men like this have a tendency to believe their wives are married property only and they’ll be home waiting when they decide to come home.

A man who fits into this category will never be in love with any “one” woman because once the new wears away, he’ll be out looking to play again and seeking a replacement. These type men crave “newness” because they get their kicks from meeting new lovers, dating them, conquering, and to satisfy their craving for something different. Men who have a tendency to do this, they’re seeking to build their ego, self-esteem, and self-confidence.

A lot of men also like to live on the edge and taste the juice of many other women. They like the idea of getting away with something without getting caught too. Men who like to fall in and out of love are in love with love and they will always live like this. They’ll never been faithful to any one woman because they are seekers of “new love” and excitement. The sad thing about men like this, they are selfish and want to have their cake and to eat it too…they want their “stay at home wife” and to enjoy the company of other women at the same time.

Men like this are controlling, selfish people, and they think of no-one but themselves. They don’t even consider what type venereal disease they might take home to a spouse. Their the type men who would be driven “nuts” if their wives went out at nights. They want to play and have their fun but they’re not about to allow their wives to go anywhere without them…this equals their insecurities coming out to play.

Summation

Men who are restless in their marriages are suffering from extreme desires and cravings that will never be satisfied by one woman. They constantly need to have their ego’s built up so they can achieve self-esteem and self-confidence to hide their real insecurities they live with everyday. If your a woman who is married to a man like this, you’re living in sheer hell, and unless you can get up the nerve to leave, you’ll live like this the rest of your married life.         

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