Is He Serious?

February 14, 2012 by dodolbete  
Published in Marriage

Sign that he’s not serious about you.

No matter how much you love the guy that you’re dating with but there were times when you’re wondering if he’s serious or not. Here are some of the signs that he won’t putting any serious effort to his relationship with you.

No talk about marriage

It’s obvious. When he never want to talk about marriage, or always try to talk about something else whenever the talk about marriage arise. He might thought that he’s still want to look around.

Never introduce you to his family

Or at least his friends. If he never do so, perhaps he hasn’t consider your relationship with him as a serious matter.

Less attentive

He used to be so nice, but then he seems to turn into a different person. No more sweet attention he used to give, always looks so emotional, and difficult to communicate with. Is there any other woman showed up in his life?

Full of lies

One single lie leads to other lies. Is it possible that he already have another woman, or even a wife?

Don’t want to see you

If he only communicate with you through text messages, emails or online chat, and never came to your place, or asking you out for an offline date, he couldn’t be serious.

Just for sex

He’s been doing it over and over with many other ladies. Perhaps even some other more. You need to question his loyalty.

Always the same place

Why he never take you for a date to other places? Is there any possibility that he’s hiding something from you, or hiding you from the others?

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40 Responses to “Is He Serious?”
  1. tankermone Says:

    Oops! He may be a cad!

  2. dodolbete Says:

    yup… and many women fall into such kind of guy

  3. the guy Says:

    no a der cois, kali

  4. girishpuri Says:

    true and one should beware of such elements

  5. cyborgwar Says:

    make me remember when i was young..hahaha

  6. dodolbete Says:

    @ the guy: Hah?!
    @ girishpuri: I’ve did before LOL
    @ cyborgwar: Gosh, young? How old are you now? ^,^

  7. juangmangun Says:

    thank’s for share….

  8. dodolbete Says:

    you’re welcome ^,^

  9. Yuditha86 Says:

    Wow, good share. I better be careful :)

  10. mdrkarim7 Says:

    Well read.. and liked it…

  11. Vinaya says good bye Says:

    Though you wrote this for women, many of your points also hold true for men.

  12. Margaret Boseroy Says:

    Glad I’m married… :-)

  13. Safa Says:

    thanks for sharing this

  14. dodolbete Says:

    @ Yuditha: Yup, caution is important sis LOL ^,^
    @ mdrkarim7: Thank you ^_^
    @ Vinaya: Indeed actually, but I’d rather see it from a woman’s side for I am a woman ^,^
    @ Margaret: Wish me the next after you LOL ^,^
    @ Safa: You’re welcome ^_^

  15. LCM Linda Says:

    Great tips. People in love must not overlook any of these signs.

  16. aheed411 Says:

    Thanks for this

  17. dodolbete Says:

    @ Linda & Aheed: You’re very much welcome ^_^

  18. avissado Says:

    you can never tell..people change

  19. dodolbete Says:

    Indeed some of them…while the rest are not at all ^,^

  20. fragile18 Says:

    Thanks for sharing. After reading this, i think he’s serious.

  21. Aroosa Gloomy Says:

    No he was not is why he cheated me:(

  22. dodolbete Says:

    @fragile18: Good for you then. Hope it’s not too early for “Congratulation!” ^,^
    @Aroosa Gloomy: Get another one & wish you the best luck in it ^_^

  23. nita kusuma dewi Says:

    nice aricle

  24. dodolbete Says:

    Thank you very much nita kusuma dewi ^_^

  25. aheed411 Says:

    Very nice

  26. Lady Sunshine Says:

    Practical tips. :D

  27. ittech Says:

    Very well stated

  28. AmosTheCat Says:

    You are right. Good thoughts, well expressed.

  29. dodolbete Says:

    @aheed411: Thank you ^_^
    @Lady Sunshine Says: Indeed LOL ^_^
    @ittech: Thank you ^_^
    @AmosTheCat: Thank you very much ^_^

  30. dwisuka Says:

    The girls must read this

  31. Angelji Says:

    Thanks for these , now got a good bases…

  32. ebasearticles Says:

    nice shared

  33. dodolbete Says:

    @dwisuka: Lol indeed I agree ^_^
    @Angelji: glad it’s useful. thank you ^_^
    @ebasearticles: thank you ^_^

  34. bagus69 Says:

    i think he’s serious.

  35. LCM Linda Says:

    dodolbete, I think many ladies suffer from this question. Your tips will help eliminate one’s anxiety.

  36. dodolbete Says:

    @bagus69: Really?
    @LCM Linda: Thank you. Hope it really useful ^_^

  37. dodolbete Says:

    @bagus69: Really?
    @LCM Linda: Thank you. Hopefully so ^_^

  38. A Bromley Says:

    Very good article, good tips. Definte signs he is not serious.

  39. dodolbete Says:

    Hahaha indeed true. Thank you very much ^_^

  40. Safa Says:

    I voted this again.


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