How to Have a Happy Marriage?
It is already a fact that we all want to have a happy marriage. We even dreamed about it when we’re still young, we always hope that we would end up with our prince charming and have a fairy tale love story. But in reality, not all have a happy marriage.
How do you define happy marriage? Is it having your own house? You have a faithful husband and lovely children? You have no money problems? You are successful with your own career. You always have time for each other? Or you have happy family that is being admired by people around you.
We always ask this question “how to have a happy marriage?” we always look for an answer and if there is any secret ingredients that we need to know to have a happy marriage. But the answer is very simple, if we want to have a happy marriage we should never stop loving our husband, we should not lose our self-dignity and always have passion or desires for everything.
Love is the foundation of marriage, without your husband’s love, life would be incomplete and empty. In most cases, husbands cease to love their wives because wives tend to forget to awaken his husbands’ love because she was too preoccupied with household chores, with her work and with her children. She tends to forget that she was a wife first before she became a mother. Do keep in mind that husband needs also love and attention.
Second is never losing your self-dignity. If you want to be honored, cherished and respected by your husband, do not lose yourself. Do not let him push you around or mistreat you. Do not lose your temper and learn to handle yourself in any situation. Lastly, always have desires. There is nothing wrong in wishing or hoping for something if this will help you to achieve more for your marriage.
You should ask yourself “are you satisfied with your marriage or are you already giving up your marriage?” Always remember that you are the key for your own happiness. You can give up on your marriage if you feel that you cannot do anything about it or you can try changing yourself for the better and rekindle your marriage.