How to Find Out If Your Boyfriend Will Become a Good Husband

November 26, 2009 by Ann Yo  
Published in Marriage

Are you considering a serious relationship that will lead to marriage? If you’re thinking about this thing then you need to figure it out if your boyfriend will become a good husband.

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Some women believe that there are men who tend to change by the time they get married. This statement could be true or false to some men but for women, it would be good if they change for good in order to make the relationship stronger like becoming more responsible and committed. Other men may choose the opposite way like taking you and the relationship for granted so be very observant of the little things that he is unconsciously showing to you. It’s very important that you could picture your boyfriend as a good husband in case you’ll decide to get married. If you’re boyfriend is already asking you to marry him then you should consider this as a substantial issue in life on how to determine if he will make a good husband. You need to notice if he is the kind of man who wants to know you inside and out in order to make you happy.

Your boyfriend should know how to share his deepest feelings and emotions including his achievements and failures in life. He respects your opinions and decisions and understands your weaknesses and strengths. He is ready to offer help and lets you know that he cares and even surprises you with little things that makes all the difference in your world. In short, your  boyfriend will try his best to let you feel that you’re the most special person in his life.

Listen intently on how your boyfriend speaks about his past relationships with other women because this could give you a hint whether he’s sensitive to women’s feelings, emotions and needs. Just observe how he talks about women in general then ask several questions about his opinions to check the level of respect that he has for them.

If your man learns how to pinpoint the things that makes you upset then this a very good sign that he will become a good husband. Wives do sometimes expect husbands to be mind readers. Most women know how to study their partner very closely so that they can read their minds when something goes wrong. It is difficult for them to understand why men haven’t studied them as closely as they should if they are really important in their lives. For most women, it will not take that much time to study those facial expressions as well as body movements if their boyfriends really care for them. Your girlfriend will adore you for being able to pick up easily on the things that had been bothering her without having to say it to you.

Try to bring up the topic about the main cause of divorce and if your boyfriend says that a wife should be more understanding when her man becomes weak or gets tempted within their marriage then this may only indicate that he will not try his best to become a faithful husband. Boyfriends who value the sanctity of marriage generally have a very strong opinion about divorce. Usually, their opinions are based from their own parent’s successful marriagesinspite of the challenges and difficulties that goes along with it. If he says that he can’t imagine ever going through a divorce then there’s a very good chance that he will offer his time, dedication and effort in order to have a fruitful and happy marriage.

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  1. Joie Schmidt Says:

    Very good advice.

    Blessings.

    Sincerely,

    -Liane Schmidt.

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  3. Goodselfme Says:

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